Would it be wrong to talk to a girl with the intentions of going out with her, if she had a bf? I guess guys could answer too, since she is dating a guy... I really like her, and i cant just wait and wait and wait, right?
2006-09-28 09:35:33 · 15 answers · asked by babsa_90 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys, its not like i want to have sex with her, im talking about a real relationship. I would never try to ruin a relationship out of lust, and im not going to date her romantically enless she wants to...
2006-09-28 09:44:40 · update #1
Im a junior and shes a senior, and i feel like it would be too late if i do wait.
2006-09-28 09:47:25 · update #2
Ever hear that old saying:
"Do onto others as you would wish them do onto you."
2006-09-28 09:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could let her know that you are interested then if something does go wrong with the bf you could be there to pick up the pieces. Be prepared for rejection maybe you could just be friends and start the romantics later when she is available
2006-09-28 16:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not married to the guy and all is fair in love and war (well, almost all). You can do whatever you want as long as you aren't leading her on or tempting her to cheat on the bf with you. If she does cheat with you, the bf has every right to kick your ***.
2006-09-28 16:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, it is wrong. Think of it like this...if you were dating her would you think it is alright for other guys to to talk to her with the intention of going out with her? I don't think so...Always treat a situation like you were in the other persons shoes. Respect others and they will respect you.
2006-09-28 16:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be wrong..would you like that if you were her boyfriend..do unto others as you would like them to do to you..there are more fish in the sea..cut your losses now and move on..it is the right thing to do even if it is difficult.
2006-09-28 16:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by iloveflowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her bf is dating another girl.and then tell her bf to ask a girl for the homework assignments.then it will look like they are talking to each other.then show the girl.she will get mad at him,dump him,and never talk to him again.then you can talk to her.
2006-09-28 16:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't mind your head being stoved in by her boyfriend i guess.yes,and being a snake in the grass is a very attractive look in a man.if she cheats on her bloke with u,she will cheat on u with someone else.if it were my girl,you would have to wait and wait and wait...............
to regain consciousness.
2006-09-28 16:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you couldn't wait but as lond as you don't ask her out cuz then you may come up missing. you just become her friend and wait tell its over.
2006-09-28 16:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ciera W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be wrong for you to do this. YOU never made a committment to anyone, nor do you really know the extent of the girl's relationship.
Just do it, you p***y!
2006-09-28 16:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Turd Ferguson 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to move on if you go out with her her boyfriend migth find out and try to beat you
2006-09-28 16:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋