How can you???? This question just randomly popped in my head.
2006-09-28 09:35:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
your family finds one for you.
2006-09-28 09:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask the one point three billion Muslims' parents....lol.
Sister, from time immemorial arranged marriages were the order of the day. The parents of the girl and the boy check out the future spouse, approve them, get the approvoal of the boy and the girl and they are married.
Many times when young people decide who they will marry, they use emotions more than reason. That is why so many marriages end up in divorces these days. In the old days the elders decided based on mature reasoning and understanding. Which is why there are less divorces in Muslim nations than in America.
I know it may be strange to meet a stranger and lose your virginity to him or her. But then you will never forget that person as he/she becomes your life partner for ever!!
I hope this answers your question.
2006-09-28 10:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by NQV 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that in Europe women couldn't date until the modern ages..but Islam gives women the full right to accept or reject the husband or the man asking her hand..so it is a family arrangement with the choice to the girl in the end.
2006-09-28 10:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by mido 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, there are lots of ways:
1. ur parents can pick one for you, but u do have a right to say yes or no.
2. U dont have to date a person to know him. Just talk and get to know them.
One reason that dating is prohibited in islam is that the girl/boy dont do anything innapropriate.
2006-09-28 11:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by saadia_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents already would have a man in mind for you to marry, someone the girl doesnt know, i hear Muslim mother in laws live with the newly weds, even go as far as sleeping in between them in the bed, thats what happened to a girl i worked with a couple years ago
2006-09-28 09:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just email me Needmorewife@gmail.com. You can be my 2/3/4/5/6/7/8/9 wife, You must act fast. I am just try to save the poor. LOL.
2006-09-28 09:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by OpenMinded 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is love which means without love you can not marry anyone its up to the girl Islam laws clearly say so
2006-09-28 09:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
traditionally it was arranged by parents, nowadays if you know someone in family, school or work you go ahead with help from parents again. dating still not allowed though and if you are old enough that your parents depend on you then you are it, peace
2006-09-28 09:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by HK3738 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just meet a good Muslim boy and bat your eyes at your Daddy
2006-09-28 09:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by esoreinna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times their family arranges the marriage, they have no say in the matter.
2006-09-28 09:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your parents set you up with one. Get out now, while you still can!!
2006-09-28 09:37:00 · answer #11 · answered by Ana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋