well my boyfriend and i were great and i dont really know what happend that made us just to stop dating each other so we broke up and i say he dumped me and he says i dumped him.....now after a month i cant stop thinking about him and i miss him so and he is so close to me and he sees me as a best friend but also flirts on me, how can i know if he wants me as much as i want him? how can i make him see how much i care? what should i do if i cant stop thinking about him, im crazy for him...:'(
2006-09-28 09:20:38 · 14 answers · asked by A.S.IP.W.F.D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If neither of you want to be the one who ended it, doesn't that mean you BOTH regret breaking up? Sounds to me like you both still care and want it to work. I think you should tell him gently how you feel, if you really can't stop thinking about him. But make sure you don't put pressure on him and you mustn't let your friendship become awkward afterwards (just keep joking and don't bring it up) or else you risk losing him as a friend. But it sounds to me like he wants you back too. Good luck!
2006-09-28 09:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that maybe your break-up was a little more on impulse rather than thoroughly thinking it out? Sounds like you both want to be with each other. Especially if he's saying that you broke up with him; people don't like to have their partner break up with them...which means, he still wants to be with you. So if you want him back, you might as well tell him that.
2006-09-28 09:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mike, start over. And maybe you could tell him that you like the way things are now between you, but you also like the way things were before, and does he think there might be a way to put the two together? because you would really like more
2006-09-28 09:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by gelfin1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...this sounds like an episode of "friends"
Just tell him, nuthin wrong with that, if you end up together, thats all the better, if not...your still better off, because you could have gone on for weeks, or months, or years not knowing what might have been.
2006-09-28 09:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by Albireo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. ask him what is going on. it's not fair to send mix signals. he has to decide what he wants: romance or friendship. he can't flirt but say he only wants to be friends if its hurting you because you want more. its confusing and hurtful. just talk to him about how you are feeling and ask him about his feelings.
2006-09-28 09:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by smcmsam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to start things over
2006-09-28 09:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him. if he is still a friend thats what you need to do. read tips on dating and relationships on this site to help you more
2006-09-28 09:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell u still hav feelings for him and ask how he feelz and try to work thingz out again! =P good luck!
2006-09-28 09:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend
2006-09-28 09:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go straight to him give him a big kiss and tell him how about we start all over...
2006-09-28 09:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by luna1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋