You go out with a new guy (you have been out a couple times before) and he takes you too a fairly decent restaraunt where you like the food but he only orders chips and salsa! It isn't a speciallty dip tray or anything, just the plain chips and salsa they serve you for free before your meal is ready only it costs 3 75 to order them alone. I think it is cheap of the guy.
2006-09-28 09:11:54 · 19 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him! He is so cheap! If you go to a nice restaurant you should be expecting a nice meal! We all deserve it!
2006-09-28 09:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by suz2345 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's cheap; but maybe he couldn't afford anything else but wanted to be around you. Next time, you both should pay for half or something, then you can have a nicer meal. Or maybe just hang out where food is not involved. Or, he's a cheapo and was seeing how little he could do to get you where he wanted you. In that case, dump him!
2006-09-29 01:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheap! I would feel terribly awkward having lunch with this guy. If I were you I would have a couple of more dates with him to see if he's always like that and if he is ask him "you're not hungry?" If you don't get a fairly decent answer chances are he's a cheap scum bag.
2006-09-28 16:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheap...maybe thats what he wanted. Don't judge him based on that. Besides you can look at that as a good things cuz usually the flashy, trying-to-impree-you-kind-ofguys woudl order something big and expensive that they probably don't want or have never eaten just to impress you. Sooo the fact that he orders something simple and to his liking shows you that he's real and str8 up about what he does!
2006-09-28 16:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he have water with that...lol....i would've had jokes all night about it until he ordered something...that would make me feel out of place...i'm having a meal and ur eating chips...omg...it's different if you have been together for a while and ur bf is like i'm not that hungry just get what you want...
2006-09-28 16:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on whether you went there for a snack, or whether it was a "dinner date". If it was a dinner date, then I would personally find it offensive that he ordered for the both of you w/o asking what you'd like ! You should've ordered whatever you wanted and made it clear that YOU would be paying for your own food.
2006-09-28 16:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by earthlove32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he at least tell you to order something? Did you ask him about it? Did you offer to pay for dinner? there are a lot of different circumstances, need more information. If he asked you out and it was for dinner, than ya, he is cheap.
2006-09-28 16:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's all he wanted to eat. When you get craving for some chips and salsa ain't nothin gonna stop you.
2006-09-28 16:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tubleroo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have expressed your hunger, and just came out with it, are we here for dinner or a quick snack. Honesty is always the best way to start, and end.
2006-09-28 16:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that is kind of cheap of him, BUT at least you know he wasn't interested in the food, but instead, interested in being with YOU!
2006-09-28 16:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by nataliejluv008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋