I'm a 28 yr old single mom,I started a long distance relationship with a man I met online, we dated for about 1 yr. he proposed for marriage at about the 3rd month from meeting, we continued a long distance relationship, keeping email, chat, phone, mail and all types of communication every day, he also came to my country every month for 2-5 days each time. I fell in love with him bcause of the way he was. When we started doing the paperwork for the civil wedding, I found out his divorce was not final, weird after he had said he had been divorced for 1 yr, I took care of all the inscription for his wedding and divorce in my country, being he was born here too..then I found out that when he went out w/friends his ex also, and was still a part of his life, whenever I confronted him w/ things I did not like, he got mad and defensive, he started to change and then communication decreased, to the point in which we took time off, we were still to 2gether in January 2006....
2006-09-28 09:09:43 · 5 answers · asked by LatinSpice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello once again..I..since the space here is short, I started to see changes in him by about Xmas time, we were still working out things, due to the both of us having quite character! I tried to be the best I can be and understanding gf..things fell apart by mid-Jan and I told him I did not want to wed him anymore..with all arrangemenst for the wedding done: wedding party, honeymoon, music, hotel, rings..my dress, cake..everything!!! I found out he owns a website with a buddy and they post personal stuff there I happened to get in a few days ago and I saw a posting in which he is being congratulated cause he just became a daddy!!! I was so ..I don't know how to xplain but I felt so weird...if he just had a baby he had it while still being with me!!! So this comes to my mind, why does a man waste time and money in flying his *** to see me, be the greatest bf, act like a dad to my child, be a great friend and listener& lover, and then turn to a creep..and worst be a lying cheater !!
2006-09-28 09:28:38 · update #1
The relationship was not real, from the start. He never told
you the whole truth. Its time to think about, wheat her you would
have ever trusted him. This is a sign for you to let go and move
on. Learn from this.
2006-09-28 09:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't. A guy who would leave his fiancee for another woman is the same type of guy who would leave his wife for another woman. If he is serious about wanting to be with you he will break it off immediately with his fiance. Otherwise, all he's looking for is someplace to park his you know what in your know where for fun. It the case of now that he doesn't have you, he wants you. After he gets you, he'll look for someone else. Probably. I don't know him. You do. So be very sure that he is the one you want to be with. Don't make the mistake of having another rebound relationship where you will regret it in the long run. Take your time. Think it over carefully before acting on this. That's my advice. Hope it helps.
2016-03-26 21:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the person on the side. You should leave him. I know you love him but he doesn't love you.
2006-09-28 09:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Chesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and move on . . .
2006-09-28 09:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was married!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 09:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋