All the clubs I go to lately I see groups of girls that just dance with themselves, and won't have anything to do with the guys there whatsoever. It's not just me getting shot down, I see several guys turned away before they can even say anything. And no, the clubs I go to are not lesbian bars. It just seems like women are isolating themselves from men more and more. Or maybe they have boyfriends and are having a girl's night out to escape them. If this is the case, it seems that you are subconsciously trying to find a new bf. I guess the only way to get a girl these days is if you're a fruity looking pretty boy soap opera actor or pop singer. For shame. And don't give me that crap about you can't meet anyone worthwhile at bars. I am sick of that cliche. Several decent people that I know frequently go clubbing.
2006-09-28 09:06:20 · 8 answers · asked by Nekkid_Stewie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you CAN meet decent people at a nightclub. But there are also a lot of unsavory people there as well. Having met my husband at a nightclub, I know all about the good, the bad, and the ugly, lol. Some women just want to go out and have a fun night of dancing without any problems. And yes, some probably have boyfriends and husbands, and so dance with each other. A "girl's night out" is not just for women trying to "escape" their men, there is nothing wrong with spending a night out with friends. Being in a healthy relationship does not mean giving up having friends outside of the relationship. And also, some girls are just plain stuck up. For every girl at a club who gives you the cold shoulder, there is another one who WILL dance if asked. Maybe if you took your eyes off the size 6 model type who won't give you the time of day anyway, you would find them. It works both ways, you know.
2006-09-28 09:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I often dance with my gfs when I go out - mostly because I feel as though in a club, while even if there are nice guys out there, how can you find that out when you cant talk over the music? Also - if a girl goes with only her gfs, it is seen as really rude to just go off with someone they just met. I see how its frustrating - so just try somewhere else to meet girls.
2006-09-28 09:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kay Aishia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see a group of 4 girls and try to dance with one, then guess what. You've got 3 pissed off girls at you, because you picked their friend over them and because now you're taking their friend away. The best approach is to approach a group of 2 with another one of your friends
2006-09-28 09:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by joe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they are married or have a boyfriend there at that same club. i know this cause me and my cousin and my wife and his wife go out clubing and we the guys dont dance we stand at a diferent place, they do dance together but when guys go up to them they say no. so that is why girls dance together and dont pay attention to any guys but their husbands.
2006-09-28 09:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by TONY L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they went just to dance not to hook up leave them alone they dont want a guy to jump on them the second they enter to club relax you will find a girl
2006-09-28 09:09:28 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of these girls already have a man at home some do not want to be bothered and are not lookin some are hard to get others are bi.
2006-09-28 09:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by BadAssJarhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just want to dance, not put up with your nasty self.
2006-09-28 09:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all too busy. Why so much writing?
2006-09-28 09:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tubleroo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋