I have a bit of a problem, I am terribly guy shy. Even if I don't have a crush on a guy, I'm afraid to talk to him. Any ways for me to get over it?
2006-09-28 09:02:55 · 9 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Captcruzer... :p
2006-09-28 09:10:37 · update #1
the best way to beat a fear is by doing what you are afraid of! now that the corny crap is out of the way ( how ever it is true ). Go up to people and just start talking! get out of your comfort zone.
2006-09-28 09:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give you is for you do know that guys love girls. You really don't have to do much at all but be friendly. I know about shy but I also know that if someone shows interest I am fine.
If a guy shows interest in you just go with it. Talk with him like he is your brother or something. If a guy is funny I would think you would loosen up then.
Just don't take it all too seriously. Don't be afraid of guys. There are a number of jerks out there you don't want to have anything to do with but many that are just right for you.
If a guy trying to talk to you just smile and follow the conversation.
As you know shyness makes it look like your stuck up. Smiling can make all the difference.
2006-09-28 16:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the crush thing aside. Start becoming friends with him first. This way you guys will get to know each other without any pressure. Be friends and see what happens.
2006-09-28 16:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is no need to be shy around guys. Just try to be yourself and don't be flirtatious. Guys are usually nervous enough around girls for the both of you. Try to feel more confident, guys don't talk to girls unless they like them (not only sexually), so you should feel happy that they do talk to you... kind of like a little ego boost.
2006-09-28 16:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if it would help for you or if you'd be interested...but...I suggest learning ASL (American Sign Language). I was EXTREMELY shy too, but you can't really be shy in sign or it doesn't work too well, so it pushes you out there and helps you get stronger with ignoring people and how they look at you.
At least, it helped for me :D
2006-09-28 16:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Xim . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to guys that your comfortable with then move on to some new guys that aren't the hottest ones then go for the hot studs later
2006-09-28 16:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by catlover309 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your brain hasnt developed to the full extent, and being as you are just an infant, you may not understand the answer
2006-09-28 16:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up and talk to him. Be yourself. If not , he's shallow. Just dont give up and look for mr.right. Good luck.
2006-09-28 16:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest getting close to a guy friend or relative.. after overcoming being uncomfortable with them they could introduce you to their friends
2006-09-28 16:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋