It's not that i just want a boyfriend for the hell of it, i don't even have many guy friends. Homecoming is coming up and i'm going alone...again. I don't mind going alone, but it's getting closer and I just think that it would be nice for once to know that a guy is interested in me and would like to spend time with me. How do I find this guy?
2006-09-28 08:58:58 · 22 answers · asked by smuggie71 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are only 16, there is no reason that you should be searching for a boyfriend. One day you will meet the guy that you will fall in love with, marry and spend the rest of your life with. Until then you just need to be patient, there is no reason to search somewhere to find him. You will find him when the time is right. Not to mention the fact that homecoming and school dances are nothing but a bunch of people that dance, who cares about that? When you are older are you going to tell everyone who you went to the homecoming in 2006? I doubt it. Most people that are together won't even be together by the end of the school year, let alone in a few years.
2006-09-28 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by TheFireWithin 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-06 08:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never went to homecoming because of the same reason. I did however get the courage to call up a boy and get turned down flat. It hurt like hell, especially cause he said he wasn't going. Yeah right, he just didn't want to go w/ me. I never went. All you can do if you really want to go w/ a boy is grow some balls and ask a nice boy you think you'de have fun w/. I did and got turned down but it didn't kill me. Good luck!
2006-09-28 09:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start making friends with guys. This is how you will meet most of your boyfriends in the future. Either friendships blossom or a guy friend of on of your friends. Just be open and put your self out there and meet some new people.
2006-09-28 09:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16, you really shouldn't be consumed with finding a boy who will more than likely ruin a chunk of your life. If you want one, you should make the first moves and you should try to FIND HIM. Don't wait around for him to come to you because things don't work that way.
2006-09-28 09:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to all this love horse ****. Listen... you are 16! have fun and meet tons of people! dont be worried about if Johny likes you or not. later in life you can look back and laugh at this. Just go with tons of girl friends and have a blast. who knows, you might hook up while you are there with someone!
2006-09-28 09:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it sweetie. I know that it looks like fun to date,but alot of times, it can be complicated. Don't get me wrong, it can be fun but only when you're ready for it and it doesn't sound like you are completely ready right now. Just ease up a bit and wait for that right guy to come along.
2006-09-28 09:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you have guy friends? they are some of the easyiset people to talk to and some of the nicest. they dont carry around the drama that girls do....wel mostly. Make some guy friends because it will help in finding a bf in the long run....
2006-09-28 09:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will find plenty of time to have a boyfriend after u finish school. Hold on and worry about u first.
2006-09-28 09:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to some more guys. We guys love when a girls isn;t shy about making the first move
2006-09-28 09:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Slifer! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋