There's a new guy in my grade and he takes the same tram (subway) as me home and we sometimes play football or basketball at lunchtime together (with other ppl) i really do like him my frends know and wnat me to tell him. But i think it will ruin the little friendship I have with him rite now. I think he knows, and hes changing a tiny bit. He sometimes fiddles with his watch or jacket or something when hes around me. But then again i dunno how he is without me around. I really dont kno... shud i tell him, take the risk, or let him tell me? wait for him? i really dunno what to do nd i dunno if he likes me... hes kind of ignoring or dodging me a bit lately too... argh im sooo confused...
2006-09-28 08:51:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dun wanna scare him away thou!!!
2006-09-28 08:54:33 · update #1
btw im 14...
2006-09-28 09:03:12 · update #2
Just tell him..go for it....!
2006-09-28 08:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are smart to not want to take the risk, because if you do and you're wrong, you might scare him off & your chance w/ him could be gone. If you think he is ignoring you for some reason, just try not to let it get to you. You don't know if he is just doing that to see how you will handle it. If he does like you and you act safe, at least you know what you did right and to make him feel comfortable. Guys are shy, and so are we girls. Just don't be so desperate you tell him! Good Luck!
2006-09-28 08:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the bird go if it is yours it will come back and it does not it never was yours.
One sided love does not survive by its own.... You will get heart when you know about it as surprise.
But you will have a strength to accept "NO" as an answer if you tell her the truth. It will also be correct, moral point of view. And who knows he may be waiting for you to tell him !!!!
Finally , what we can not see and read is done by our mind unconsciously , so listen to you inner feeling, and when the time is right just go ahead and tell him . GOOD LUCK !!!!!!
2006-09-28 09:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by ppatel848 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a little something like this...
"So I have been having these feelings lately... you might call them romantic ideas of you and I. I have grown so infatuated with you that its to the point where I see you everywhere. I have changed my dogs name to yours, and at night, pray before the thrown of you that I made out of noodles and my own hair. Do you see this going anywhere or should I just tell the voices in my head that you are emotionally unavailable."
that should work.
2006-09-28 08:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would tell him anyway first i would tell him that I feel that he's trying to ignore me and ask him if something is bothering him and that I feel its some type of 10tion between us I would pull him to the side and just tell him how i fell if i really liked him but its up to you if u wanna do that.
2006-09-28 08:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by ANAboo07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and ask him his name and where he is from. Then ask him if he is going with a "imaginary" (made up) girl that you see with him all the time. If he says he hasn't been with a gurl say,"Oh i must have been seeing somebody else, but i don't know how i got it mixed up cuz i've never seen anybody as cute as you." He goin smile and u say, " Hey I like you........." write your # and say" call me sometime....." Then walk off like you're almost late for something. Not run off just walk. Or if you see one of your friends, call her or his name and walk to him or her.
2006-09-28 09:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um...Go Up To HIm And Say...I Like You...Duh!
2006-09-28 08:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by wobbles68_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you walk up to him and say Hi (his name) I like you. And you dont give a damn what anyone else thinks.
2006-09-28 08:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go up to him and ya'll are good friend you joke with him and say thats my husband and then later ask him out.
2006-09-28 08:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, He probably knows anyway
2006-09-28 08:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll go down on him. It worked for me. That's how I met my wife.
2006-09-28 08:53:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋