My boyfriend broke up with me almost two weeks then he went out with another girl then broke up with her now he wants to go back out my friend said he broke up with me because he didn't really know if he liked me but now he tells her all he does is think about me, i don't know if he lie's
2006-09-28 08:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make him wate to see if hes searice and is knot going to break up so wait a week or so then see if hes got another one in not then hes searice
2006-09-28 08:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you love him when you were with him? Do you want to go back out with him? When you were together did you and him have a trusting relationship with strong communication? If so then I think you might want to see if it will work. Here is a dumb example and it is from a tv show so it really isn't saying much for my example lol but on Boy Meets World Cory went out with a girl that wasn't Topenga (if that is how you spell her name) and he realized that he truly only wanted to be with Topenga and realized it after going out on a date with her. Then later they ended up getting married in the show. So what I am trying to say is that maybe if you and him really had a good relationship, he may be telling the truth and you should try to make the relationship work.
2006-09-28 15:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by TheFireWithin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him back? Do you want to risk him wanting someone else for a minute and then dumping you again knowing he can treat you like that? The ex-boyfriend coming to his senses is a romantic notion in the movies but does not translate into real life. If you have no strong ties (children, engagement) then start dating others yourself. Hopefully you will find someone who will not dismiss you on a whim. There are guys out there that will treat you respectfully. Good luck!
2006-09-28 15:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, best thing to do is not take him back right away. Tell him that we can start dating and see how things go. YOu don't want him to think that he can just break up with you and then come back whenever he wants. You have to let him know that you have to make sure that he wont do this again so while dating and getting to know each other more, then I'll know if I want to be bf'gf.
2006-09-28 15:41:59 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the madness, keep moving on with your life, he sounds immature and flip floppy. You sound like you already know the answer, trust your gut feelings and don't look back, too many guys to choose from.
2006-09-28 15:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about what he wants for a minute and think about what you want. You just said you don't trust him. Do you want a boyfriend that you can't trust? If not, tell him you are no longer interested and move on.
2006-09-28 15:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
The truth of the matter is that the other girl didn't want him, so he is tucking tail and begging for you take him back......stand strong and tell him that you are worth much more than that. Don't take the back seat for no one......You are worth front seat and front seat only......1st not 2nd.
2006-09-28 15:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same problem... All I can really tell you is that if he says all those things to your friend you need to ask him about it because he might be lying but only you can really determine that when you talk to him.
2006-09-28 15:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say leave him alone he already broke up with you and when the next girl walks by that he thinks he loves dont you think he'll break up with you again..... Move On
2006-09-28 15:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by calientechickspicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how you feel about him. if you love him give him another chance if you don't tell him no or play him like he did you that could be fun.
2006-09-28 15:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋