i always see some of the finest women with some of the ugliest out of shape guys and think to myself what the hell. so ladies can you tell me whats up with that?
2006-09-28 08:29:18 · 31 answers · asked by TONY L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality
Look's aren't everything.
2006-09-28 08:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by OhSoLovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there.
I think that most women get sick of all the crap.
Plus these guys treat them so much better because they know how lucky they are to have a hot girlfriend
but i would much rather date a guy with a good personality and someone you can hold a good conversation.
2006-09-28 08:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not only looks that matter to us all the time that's just a wonderful bonus...women tend to look more on the inner person after we get through our teens...you can be a really hot guy and be one of the most hateful and meanest guys inside or the some of the not so looking guys are extremely beautiful inside and have a lot to offer the world and us beautiful woman..beauty is not only skin deep...and beauty is always in the eyes of the beholder..what is hot to you may be ugly to the next guy
2006-09-28 08:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys who are good looking are jerks and full of themselves. If a lady wants a relationship that is going to work, she needs to look at personality, chemistry and security. Good looking guys almost always think they can do better no matter what, trust me I am with a very handsome man, and have no security, ladies hit on him right in front of me and then I have to hear him brag about it for weeks, he's very full of himself and in return I get treated like crap and taken advantage of.
2006-09-28 08:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't take a lady to recognize the dumbest question of the day...
Women who are not shallow... look to the inside of a person... just like in a book.... the cover only holds the contents... They want content not covers. And if a woman does focus only on the physical appearance then she isn't the kind of woman I would want either.
2006-09-28 08:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't speak for "all" women. But I know quite a few women who have been really hurt by "good looking men."
Some of these women had their confidence levels stomped on. So now,coincidence or otherwise, they don't go out of their way to date or get involved with these really
"good-looking guys." As a result, some of these handsome guys that are also "nice" decent guys, get to pay for what those jerks did. So, you'll either have to not go out with those women, or be patient, and show them that you are also "nice." (assuming you're handsome)
Either way, good luck.
2006-09-28 08:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, average guys do treat their Beauty Queens like Queens.
Have you noticed thin women with fat guys:
Fred and Wilma Flintstone; Peter and Lois (Family Guy);
Barney and Betty Rubble. See the cartoons have known this will work for decades.
2006-09-28 08:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most women get sick of all the crap their fed so they turn to guys who are real. Plus these guys treat them so much better because they know how lucky they are to have a hot girlfriend. Down to earth guys can be alot nicer, gentleman like, and just be better in a real relationship- less games.
2006-09-28 08:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to one thing. Personality and confidence.
Women are not nearly as impressed with looks as they are with a man that knows how to be a man.
If you know what your about and know how to treat a woman you will have no problem no matter what you look like.
Some women, just like men, are impressed by appearances but most want substance not appearance.
2006-09-28 08:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that attractiveness is interior the attention of the beholder! I even have self belief that numerous adult men like as much as now or are greater attracted to nicely-known or extremely above nicely-known females, simply by fact females who seem marvelous on the exterior are generally a concern for many adult men simply by fact they're continuously gettin' hit on!. Thats no longer a reliable factor for the nicely-known "Dude" who isn't mentally reliable. To have a pleasing looking females/female, you could desire to be "reliable minded"! i think of that as quickly as you get somewhat older and experienced, you regulate into more advantageous mentally and subsequently you would be waiting to take on the "reliable & the undesirable" of being w/a pleasing females/female. remember, the greater desirable looking females/females want a guy too!. don't be afraid, try it and get adventure to evaluate a thank you to deal w/them. additionally as a procedures simply by fact the personalities bypass, quite everyone has a distinctive character, "gruesome" or no longer! choose for what you recognize!
2016-12-12 16:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by allateef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they weren't like that when they first got together..maybe they are just stuck now..but then again who can trust a really good looking guy? I've never been attracted to the pretty boys..The more rough cut guys are more attractive.
2006-09-28 08:33:24 · answer #11 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋