with one that buys you alot of nice stuff? I know everyone thinks that makes you a s**** but aren't you a s**** if you have sex with a guy you aren't married to anyway? Personally I would rather have a generous man who indulged me than give it alway for free. The cheap ones expect sex too, so why not take the generous one?
2006-09-28 08:09:53 · 7 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with this if you are already intimate with him I guess. I think your morales and ethics are not the same as mine, but please, dont take that as a judgement, it is not meant to be. I am just answering as honestly as I can. I feel if a person is indulging you it must be he is trying to asuage his guilt in some way, and therefore, you letting him do this must be satisfying in some way for you to, and therefore, achieving material things fullfuls for you what the divorced parent visiting his/her child over the weekend achieves. They do the same thing. Buy the kids tons and tons of stuff, trying to rid themselves of the guilt they feel, and to try to "buy" the love and happiness of the child in some way. and the child is for that time "bought". And the same way I would NOT judge a CHILD, I am NOT judging you, sweetie. I hope that you take my advice and stand back and take notice of yourself and give yourself some much needed love and respect, and IMPORTANCE, because I bet you anything, you are really gorgous if you can get a guy to buy you stuff like that, and you *CAN* get a guy to love you and commit to you without the sex on the side! TRY!!! I promise, with a little effort, and the right guy, and a LOT of confidence in yourself, you can do it, or stand firm with the one your with right now and let him know what your feeling and stop "putting out" for the time being and see how it goes!
2006-09-28 08:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's whether your date/boyfriend/lover/whatever buys you cheap things or expensive things, but whether you love each other. If the sex is in exchange for money or gifts, then I have a problem with it; if it's the result of attraction to and real interest in the other person, then that's normal and can be a good thing.
2006-09-28 23:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well are you sleeping with him just for gifts or is he actually your man? If he's your man then you aren't doing anything wrong. If you're doing it for the gifts then you're a prostitute. It is what it is.
2006-09-28 08:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
having sex before marriage doesn't make you a s***, having sex with a lot of different people does. and you are getting gifts, money, etc. for sex then that makes you a prostitute
2006-09-28 08:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by jacemo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Beg your pardon? Yes you should be married to him first. What more did you want to hear?
2006-09-28 08:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good point!I believe its your choice what you do>I will say at least youve got your eyes headed the right way.
2006-09-28 08:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by porkchophaynes0206 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHAT!?!?!?!
What in the world makes YOU think that ALL guys want the same thing!?!??!?!
Yikes, give this woman a life...STAT!
2006-09-28 08:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋