Should a person's relationship track record be used to discern if they are good marriage material?
2006-09-28 08:06:35 · 30 answers · asked by MO1SOM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sow your seeds
2006-09-28 08:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It says he's got some pretty low family values. What a jerk!
A relationship track record is a good indicator of future behavior. A man who is screwing women and fathering children with
them all is not a good prospect for someone looking for a loyal, committed husband and father. Not only that- financially, he's probably not going to be the man who can provide a very good future if he's paying multiple women child support for multiple children.
Sadly, the kids are the ones who suffer. He's a creep.
2006-09-28 08:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer and the answer is yes. If the person you are considering marrying has a history of multiple children with multiple women you should have warning bells going off in your head. Find someone who will be able to provide more stability for you and any children you plan on having.
2006-09-28 08:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What about a woman who has multiple children with multiple dad's?
Answer: They need to learn how to use birth control. Marriage material? If they are good to the kids, then why not?
2006-09-28 08:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god yes. What kind of marriage do you think you can have with a man like this ? He has not self control and has extremely poor judgment. This is one of those things that if you get into the relationship, a yr or two down the road you look back and wonder what in the hell you were thinking. Dont do it, its a bad choice.
2006-09-28 08:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, it depends. One of the answers was about two women that he was in LT relationshis with. That's a lot different than having 8 baby mammas and 15 different kids. So consider the circumstances, if they aren't something that you see as reasonable or understandable (or you don't want to become baby mamma #9), then don't go for it. If you can get it (and explain to your family/friends etc without making excuses for him) then it's not a problem.
2006-09-28 08:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by M K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh definently! If a person keeps jumping from relationship to realtionship, it doesnt bode well for the person they are going to be with. More that likely this person will leave for whatever reasons he/she has. Maybe the have the wrong idea of what marriage is, maybe they get bored.
2006-09-28 08:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by kimberleibenton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man. I have two kids with my first wife. We were married 7 years until I found out she was a whore. I have custody of those two,have since remarried and have an infant son and another on the way. I'm pretty sure my wife would say I'm a good one
2006-09-28 08:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Flip Flop Pirate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether or not he pays his child support and makes time to spend with the children. If he does both, then he is probably someone to consider. (However, he will have financial obligations that precede his relationship with you.) If he does neither, run, don't walk, in the other direction. He is too irresponsible to be a man.
2006-09-28 08:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, because he is not capable of just being with one woman as you should have already figured out, and is he providing child support and acting as a father to all these children?? I would not touch a guy like that with a ten foot pole. You should find someone who only wants to have kids with YOU!!
2006-09-28 08:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by perplexed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships don't always work out so you can't judge him by that fact. BUT does he take care of ALL his children? What were the reasons for the breakups? Take the answers to those 2 questions into consideration.
2006-09-28 08:09:19 · answer #11 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋