my boyfriends over my house right now. and we got in a fight. i came up in my room and told him when hes ready to talk to me to come up in my room and talk since he wants me to leave him alone right now. any ideas on how to let him know that im sincerely sorry for being a jerk to him. ??
2006-09-28 08:01:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sweety, most of your answers are coming to you from women, however, as a man, let me shed some light on this.
First and foremost, guys NEVER hold grudges, particularly with their partners (male or female) for longer than 15 minutes. During our angry moment, we sulk and act like vicious idiots, why ? .. because we need that kind of attention.
Honey, I wouldn't sweat the small stuff. Learn from your silly tantrum and go over and offer a hug. Remember - it takes TWO arms to give a proper hug! (thanks Casper) For some reason, genuine hugs offer warmth and comfort. They become a wonderful start to healing. From there the possibilities are endless.
Good luck.
2006-09-28 08:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him his space unti he's ready to talk to you. Being in his face and trying to apologize again and again will only get him more angry since he told you he wants you to leave him alone right now. Unless you did something terrible like cheat on him or hurt someone/thing he really cares about, I'm sure you weren't that much of a jerk that he won't calm down and want to talk to you. But, you need to give him his space right now. If you want to sit in the same room as him, that's fine, but don't try to talk to him. Just leave him be until he's ready to talk.
2006-09-28 19:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by ms. teacher ft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to take some time out. You're being vague about what was fought about, but you both need to spend some time apart.
A fight isn't going to be the end of the world--it's just a headache. Once he's ready, he will come to you. Tell him that you are sorry about acting insecure and reacting immediately on your first instincts. Tell him that you would still like to discuss the matter with him like adults.
2006-09-28 17:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to come up. When he does, he will be ready to listen and accept your apology. Make sure whatever you did, you do not do it again. Now that you know it makes him mad. It will be harder to say I am sorry the second and third time you do whatever you did.
2006-09-28 15:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by dr's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're sincerely sorry for being a jerk to him and give him kisses
2006-09-28 15:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him (when your sure he has cooled down) look him in the eyes and simply say "I'm sorry for being a jerk to you, I'm asking you to please forgive me". Amazing how honesty and no game playing works.
2006-09-28 15:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy is mad or in a bad mood leave him alone....when starts to cool off give him a blowj0b....
2006-09-28 20:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your sorry for being a jerk....
Tell him its almost time for my period....
Tell him You sorry your just cranky and didnt mean to take it out on him
Tell him that your sorry.
lol Hope I could be some help for you =)
2006-09-28 15:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give him space.... Men have to clear their heads and let things be... Once they have done that they want to hear how sorry you are!
2006-09-28 15:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need to know what you did to make him mad. Cheat?. Give him some time to cool off first.
2006-09-28 15:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋