can we keep on doing this?

Question

ive been making out with my bf for like a month , we do almost everything but the sex act " penertation " for particular reasons i wont discuss right now .
do you think its enough ? like is my man satisfied ?
can we keep it this way ?
he seems to enjoy me and lovving what we do , but i want him happy.

Answer 1

well it depends.. ask him... by you saying you have done everything but.... do you mean:

oral?
mutual masterbation?
anal?

so the only thing left is vaginal sex?

If thats the case and he has been everywhere else.. there will come a time where he will "slip" or not take no for an answer.. so you need to explain to him why you don't want to do that... but.. it sounds like you may have some issues with sex so please think about the following before going any further:

1 - are you ready to have sex? Have you thought about everything that becoming sexually active entails? have you thought about STDs? Birth control (sponge, pill, patch, shot, etc)? have you thought throug what you would do if you became pregnant? what are your feelings on abortion or adoption? have you seen a dr to get a checkup and any birth control prescriptions you may need?

2- are you responsible enough to be sexually active? do you carry your own supply of condoms (don't rely on the guy to remember)? do you practice safe sex (alway using a condom and using it properly)?

3- have you and your potential lover discussed your feelings on pregnancy and what you would do should you become pregnant before you wanted?

If all of the above has been done.. and he is still enjoying himself and understands your concerns for not "going all the way" then just have fun.. but..... he will want it sooner (than later).

Answer 2

It may be enough for now...but I don't think it can go on forever. Do you think he is exclusively having this "almost sex" only with you? Could he possibly be getting the "full deal" with someone else? I suggest that you be clear on him and the relationship. Take care of yourself and don't let yourself be used. It's better to stay home and read a good book then to have sex for years in a relationship that's going nowhere...especially if he's cheap!

Answer 3

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 4

for a man makin out is never enough and what u won't do someone else will..so that's a choice you have to make when u are ready and it's about the both of u being happy not just him

Answer 5

Well if you do everything other than penetration. (ie: Oral, foreplay, etc, etc).....then of course he should be satisfied. It's not like you're neglecting him or something. Now if all he was getting was something he could do himself then ahhh, might as well not do anything at all. (Sorry but there's nothing intimate about a handjob or the like lol).

Answer 6

eventually it will lead to sex. or it wont, and u go separate ways. that is the nature of life. dont kid urself with happiness with the way things are. unless you have the self control and omnipresence of a demigod, u are bound by natures way to do things...that is to have sex and procreate...........

Answer 7

That depends on your reasons. If it is to keep from pregnancy, sure and I am sure he will support that. If it is because you or he fears penetration, better talk about it.

Answer 8

Yes you can keep doin that. Cuz u don;t always have to have sex

Answer 9

no dont keep doing this it will eventually lead on to full sex

Answer 10

Yes you can keep on doing this.
Sex isnt everything.