2006-09-28 07:47:17 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have any animosity against my former girlfirends at all. I just don't want my current girlfriend to see them by chance.
2006-09-28 07:50:36 · update #1
Be respectful and get rid of them.
2006-09-28 07:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give them back to them not only will your current girlfriend never see them, but your former girlfriends will respect you for it and may tell friends what a nice guy you are. It really would pay off.
You don't need to keep them for... uh.... your personal needs if you have a girlfriend.
AND here's the pay off. If your former girlfriends tell other friends how respectful you are by giving them back-- you could have a nice chance at one of their friends if the current girlfriend doesn't pay off.
So be a nice guy, and collect the benifits.
2006-09-28 07:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by BUD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2Cool
I'm not answering this question with my opinion, I'll tell you what actually happened to my colleague.
He had a lot of these photos with some girls.
He lost his job the first time when his boss found out.
That was 6 years ago.
He created a larger collection and darling "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
An ex got his photos, blackmailed him and when she was fed up of that... she sent it to every media house in the country, one of which actually put the photos the front page.
Oh the scandal.!!!
People are still talking about it here.
And he was just a journalist.
If you have a job in public life... it would be a bad idea if anyone ever ever ever found then.
If not, start your own personal collection and create a comfortable shrine for yourself
2006-09-28 07:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tear them up and trash them. That would be the most decent thing to do. Why would you want to hold on to nude pics of your old girlfriend anyways. All they going to do is cause you to lose a future girlfriend if she was to accidentlly find them..
2006-09-28 07:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Big-Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I would be livid if I found pics of my guys old girlfriends - especially if I found he still looked at them. Granted, if I was "short-term" dating this guy, it wouldn't bother me as much. If I was in a "committed" relationship with him, I would be hurt and bothered. Why does he still have pictures of things past - to compare me to? to blackmail someone? to masturbate to? Why bother keeping them around? Keep them memories, lose the pictures - you can always get better ones online anyway.
2006-09-28 08:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by hereandthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give them to her or cut them up and toss them. Move on. You don't want to keep them and still be attached to her. Or have someone else find them. Or worse yet have a new gf find them or girl you like. Trust me. Girls are nosey. Especially me. Just get rid of the past. You'll feel better. If she wants them back just mail them to her.
2006-09-28 07:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they're hot, then you SHOULD let your girlfriend see them!
why? to make her feel good about herself. you could tell her that you were with those girls but you chose to be with your current girlfriend.
as an alternative, you can tell her that she MUST keep herself looking good or else you will move on to someone hotter. the pictures are proof that you can get it.
2006-09-28 07:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by loveholio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them, it is a keepsake. Just put them up or tell her first so she knows about it and don't feel like your hiding them. Let her hide them just not destroy them. The past is the past so she should not be offended unless she insecure.
2006-09-28 07:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them. You never know when you may want to look at them or share them with other guys or gals. lets see a few
2006-09-28 07:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by orygunduk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are single...keep them. If you are in a relationship,throw them away, if your girl finds them..she might be hurt that you still have or look at them. And that might lead to bigger issues.
2006-09-28 07:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a problem with keeping pic of her or you and her together. The past is the past. But nude pics..lol...Hell NO!
2006-09-28 07:49:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋