How to tell if he's interested?

Question

if a guy is interested in me what kind of signs will he be giving off?
I like this guy who I work with, and get the impression he likes me too, what signs should i be looking out for? any help would be much appreciated!

Answer 1

Well, you'll never REALLY know if he likes you or not until you ask him. But here are some hints that he might be having some feelings for you:

- He says, "Good to see you," or, "Missed having you around the other day," when you come to work.
- He tries to show off around you, with heavy lifting or other physical labor.
- He likes to spend a lot of time around you, and often will come up with (noticeable) excuses to be around you.
- He almost always has a smile or grin on his face when he looks at you; the times he doesn't smile or grin are the times when he's trying to throw you off.
- He sometimes doesn't have anything to say, but he'll still try to start up a conversation with you.
- He asks a lot about your boyfriend or the guys you have your eyes on.

I'm sure there's more I could list, but I'm really tired at the moment since I've been up almost 24 hours. Hope that answers your question.

Answer 2

with guys, it's not the easy task, so many variations. first off and right away, if he's married, he's interested, sad to say. learn that first, the wife will be in great pain and so would you, hard to escape that karma.a single guy. depend on his personality. he may be quiet and reserved therefore he will be hard to read. we are the better guys, cautious, we don't want to be hurt. i myself have many reservations. no smoking, drunk in public, loud and vexation types,they don't appeal to me, no matter how cute. but clean, sweet, caring and respectful and knowing where she's going, not dizzy. a firm hand shake, a distincful way of walking.that's hard to find and why i am single. there are guys that are out there and well, they would probably enjoy a party type girl. people in thier late 30's and 40's, they're not as picky as they should be,figuring that time is not on their side, but time is on no one's side. to answer what you asked, you can not go by an impression, guy's don't do the sign thing. we just buy you things and favor you and say nice things and ask you out. if he has been burnt before, he might think you'll hurt him. so stop and ask him. first , if he's going out with someone already, then if he's not, would he like to go see a movie, but have one you want to see, already in mind, don't bother about, if it's a chick flick or a dude film, that doesn't matter, on the first time out. your'e both wearing a mask that first date anyway, he'll be happy you asked at all. nice to start off easy going and cool, things can only get hot. if you start off too hot, things can only cool down...

Answer 3

If he likes you it will be obvious. With guys it's easy to tell, he'll talk to you a lot, flirt a little and look at you when he thinks you're not looking.
If he's anything like me he may even loose the ability to perform the most simple tasks (like walking) if he knows he has your secret attention.
If you really want to know, ask him out for a drink after work and see where it goes from there.
Worst case scenario he blows you off and you have your answer and can get on with things.
Best case scenario you hit it off, get married, you bear his children, grow old together after amassing great wealth and the world is a wonderful place.

Answer 4

this is never easy.............. so many "close" friendships between males and females could give off the same vibes which is why, lots of people assume that when they see a bloke and a girl out that they are an item..........not always the case,
i think youll know the kind of signs( body language etc... eyecontact) to look for................the hard part is figuring out if its a friendship affection thing or more.its easier said than done but just ask him out for a pint etc or if you have self confidence enough, just bask him out for a date........

Answer 5

Easy. He'll ask questions, initiate meetings and generally make contact. If you were to suggest that you would love to do a specific thing but have no one to go with, he'd probably volunteer. You could go direct and say wanna take me out next Tuesday etc. Warning - interested but detached can mean he's attached!

Answer 6

If a guy is interested in you, he should be man enough to tell you. If you like him, ask him out.

Answer 7

He pays attention to you. Laughs carries on with you. Always takes a notice you are around him.

Word of advice i wouldn't date anyone i work with. You never mix honey with money. That's just my opinion. Good luck.

Answer 8

Does nice things for you. Makes excuses to be near you.

Answer 9

First of all: I dont think you shoud S&%* where you eat...secondly, you'll know honey....if he likes you, he will ask you out, he will email you at work, he will just TELL you that he likes you

Answer 10

Look between his legs. He'll have a b oner