my g/f is planing to meet this guy she talkes to on messenger? she didnt tell me i found out because she didnt logg out of messenger??what should i do ? confrount her
2006-09-28 07:01:27 · 78 answers · asked by TOM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please look at my myspace and tell me whats wrong with me please
http://www.myspace.com/bandit1027
2006-09-28 07:20:49 · update #1
thank you all for the answers
2006-09-28 07:23:48 · update #2
answer on cheating cont. please
2006-09-28 07:29:56 · update #3
HE11 YES IT IS
2006-09-30 05:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who is in a serious relationship should not be secretly "chatting" and meeting someone of the opposite sex. There are2 forms of cheating. Physical & emotional, both hurt the person on the wrong end. I would ask her what her intentions were (if you two aren't exclusive) and go from there. If you two are serious and made a commitment to each other, then I might seriously think twice about continuing your relationship. It's better to find out when you are dating then after you are married how your mate is. best of luck to you.
2006-09-28 07:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by RACHEL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront her. Totally not okay. It's not cheating but it's definitely a step in the right direction and it sounds like it's time to get out. I would approach her first though - say you saw that she was talking to this guy and you were wondering who it was. Maybe it's an old high school friend or something and then maybe ask if you can go too so you can meet him. Or maybe don't ask if you can go too but definitely ask what's up.
2006-09-28 07:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This could be a touchy subject. This could be an old friend, or it could be someone new. Talk to her and let her know that you know about this. Don't get mad, and try not to let things get overly heated. If you really care and feel this is a threat, let her know your feelings towards her and let her know that your feelings are the reason why you are experssing a concern. It could be that she is cheating. Maybe she's affraid of yor temper (If you have one) and didn't want to tell you. There could be lots of reasons. Don't be irrational and let the anger fly over something that may not be what it seems. Get the whole truth first.
2006-09-28 07:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probably cheating. First, come to grips with the fact that your relationship is probably dead. (And may have been dead for quite some time.) Before you confront her, be prepared to dump her. OR, you could just forget all about the messenger thing and the other guy... and wait until she eventually dumps you.
2006-09-28 11:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mia.ScrewNormal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She Definitely Ain't Interested In You....She's Just Keeping You Around Just In Case Things Don't Work Out With Her New "Friend". Confront Her, And If She Says It's A "Friend", Don't Believe It. Take Biz Markie's Word For It....
2006-09-28 07:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Can't Make A Good Avatar!!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all she is gonna ask you y u were looking at her s*it and just say that she left on and you were worried something might happen when she meets this messenger guy. Just be honest and make sure its not a cheat. Dont ask her straight out though like, "ARE YOU CHEATING ON ME?!!"...of course not like that. just confront her.
2006-09-28 07:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ASK her about it in a non-accusatory, non-confrontational manner. She could be sneaking around behind your back...or it could be completely innocent. Either way as a boyfriend you have a right to know...and asking her straight forward without accusing her will keep her from feeling too defensive...Plus it really helps with the trusting issues later on in the relationship. Good Luck!
2006-09-28 07:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by wintersimjp 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They may only be friends. If I were you and I knew where they were meeting, I would spy on her. Catch her in the act. That way you have proof. If you confront her now, she really has done nothing wrong, you will just start a big fight for no reason.
2006-09-28 07:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe not cheating...But def' deceiving ya'!!!
Add fact of not signing out of messenger??? NO accident in my opinion!!!
I wouldn't confront her...But rather show up at their lil' rendezvous!!!
Then move on...As it appears shes planning to do...Since shes checking to see if the grass is greener on the other side!!!
2006-09-28 07:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not cheating cause she hasn't done anything with him. The fact that she was going to meet him and not tell you about it says that she is dishonest.
You should go to the place where they are meeting with some of your friends. Tell them why you are going. So that it wouldn't seem awkard for them.
Introduce yourself to him as her boyfriend and leave them their.
If she starts to defend herself to you without you saying a word.
She was going to do something wrong.
2006-09-28 07:07:32 · answer #11 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋