My husband is angry w/ me . My employee called me and I returned his call .Wow what a big deal ! All he wanted to tell me is he'll be late for work.This guy is 19 and certainly not my type . My husband has never seen him so he constantly wonders. I tell him to come to the office , but work schedules stop that.God , Im mad . He yelled at me all night and morning saying I have some nerve calling him . The conversation was 1 min tops! I tell him his driving me crazy and he needs help but he says he would be fine if I didnt call this guy . Oh yea,
Return a call from an EMPLOYEE!
Do I have a right to be mad ? or does he ?I have never done anything to hurt him and we have 3 boys together.Was I wrong? If I was I will apologize but whoever thinks I was , youll need to tell me why because I dont see it !!!
2006-09-28 06:36:03 · 12 answers · asked by suiki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry you married a control freak.
2006-09-28 06:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're in this mess. Youre not wrong. You're husband has some jealousy/trust issues that he needs to work out ASAP. You needed to call your employee back as part of your job. If he can't understand that, then he's to fired up to be around you or the kids and should take some time away from all of you. Maybe he needs some counseling or stress management. Try talking to him. Let him know that he's the only one you are interested in and that your call was just part of your job. Good luck!
2006-09-28 07:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have a lot of pent up frustration from elsewhere in your relationship, usually people hoard their feelings and then all the anger from days, months or even years boils out at the tiniest thing, you need to sit down, with some talking rules and have a CALM discussion. No interupting, no yelling, no blaming the other person, word you sentances very carefully and when one is done talking, say "okay so this is what I heard you say..." That way you know you are each getting your point across and not mis-understanding
2006-09-28 06:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are in this situation. All you can really do is tell him to trust you and be thankful his fight only lasts a minute. As long as you know you didnt do anything wrong, I wouldnt let it bother you. It sounds like he has some insecurities he needs to work on. He should be thankful he has a loving and honest wife ...some people arent so lucky.
2006-09-28 06:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by queenbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not wrong in returning the call. It is none of your husband's business. He has to get a grip on himself. There is no point in being angry. When he starts shouting, just leave the room. Once he loses his voice he may stop.
But don't let him get to you. You did nothing wrong. He's being a total prick and jerk. Tell him to stop it.
Good luck. I hope he sees reason soon.
2006-09-28 07:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok as bizarre as i think of it extremely is to be doing that consisting of your loved ones there for the period of a dinner, you deserve your privateness. What in the experience that your bf had taken the toddler to a diverse room and you have been changing your clothing? Does she continually only walk in? Or is it only whilst your bf is around? according to probability she is uncomfortable with that concern. Are you under 19? then you extremely at the instant are not an grownup and he or she may well be questioning it is not suited. according to probability she's frightened you will get pregnant lower back and it is her bizarre way of scuffling with it.with the help of ways maximum adult males prefer to attempt breast-milk. not so bizarre.
2016-10-01 11:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no reason to be mad at you and is WAY over-reacting. Maybe he fears you will leave him for a younger man.. give him the cold shoulder until he apologizes for being and idiot.
2006-09-28 06:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kid is your employee? i say it is your responsiblity to return his call! your husband shouldnt get mad sounds like he has jealousy issues. you have to reassure to him that you love only him and tell him to chill out. take a chill pill man. maybe you guys should smoke a joint together to losen up? j/jk but at least you know he loves you!
2006-09-28 06:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by The Weed Fairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly your hub over-reacted and needs to get a grip.
2006-09-28 06:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not wrong! Seems like he's got some trust issues.
2006-09-28 06:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋