A lot of people look down on my girlfriend because of that, but mostly the women...the guys can't keep their eyes off her when we are out but I don't care cuz she is all mine...and if you think she is easy...just try>
It is unfair for people to assume she is easy just because of what she like and I like..I think she is sexy in her tight jeans...and she has a naughty come hither look when she smokes cigarettes, but she is not easy.
2006-09-28 06:24:36 · 28 answers · asked by darrin_8734 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I agree with you, but it is hard to escape the sterotype.
2006-09-28 06:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the world is full of a lot of jealous people. LOL. Instead of developing what they have going for them, you know, their personalities, their curiosity, their I.Q.'s. Many females get so threatened, especially when we are young. And we don't realize what we have going for us, and we only depend on our good looks.LOL Looking back, it's funny, because it all seems to be part of growing up. You couldn't pay me enough money to be young again, and have to learn all these things the hard way. I'm laughing so hard. I don't mean to. But I use to get so crazy jealous, and it was so stupid, because no guy is worth it. It's unfortunate that society puts so much pressure on women to sport a man. When a woman finds out she can support herself, drive a race car, buy a home, do whatever she wants. Who cares, she doesn't need a man. This is hysterical. We are so Lied to. We are Fine, just by ourselves. Nobody tells us this though. The biggest Lie in Life> LOL
2006-09-28 13:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by noface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you "assume" "everyone" makes that assumption?
If some do "assume" that of her, it is more than likely the "come hither looks" she gives and not the smoking or tight jeans themselves.
Some other women usually make that assumption of another female when they are jealous or feel threatened because they are insecure and feel their "allure" is overshadowed by hers.
OR
Maybe you are imagining others are thinking that because you are insecure or MAYBE you "assumed" the same thing when you first met her!
2006-09-29 05:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow Dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wear tight jeans and no one calls me easy. Some people think it is improper and "too sexy." I wore them when I was in Bible college and it mainly angered the other girls because I was quite a bit skinnier than the rest of them.
Smoking is cancerous, but whatever. I think they think she is easy because of the "come hither" looks she makes.
2006-09-29 01:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, women should consider what they wear and what it conveys. Unfortunately, when other men look at your girlfriend they aren't thinking -- wow, those jeans look cute on her. They are mentally un-dressing her and imaging who know what with her. That is what her clothes convey and cause. This is a choice. Maybe she should wear the tight jeans at home and dress a little less sexy in public.
As for smoking, I dunno. Smoking is unhealthy and disgusting to me. Why anyone would want to kiss someone who has been smoking is far beyond me.
I guess it comes to two things -- what her public persona is portraying -- a sex pot. And stereotypes, often based in truth, that smoking, sexy dressing women are easy and looking for a hook up.
2006-09-28 13:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Beth M 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow that's kind of weird. a lot of the girls i know do the same thing, and no one assumed that they were easy based on those factors. maybe you live in a prude area? baggy jeans are ugly, everyone wears them tight. (hopefully not tight enough so thier fat comes out the top. that's ugly also) and smoking is just... well... smoking. not sexy, not gross. just what it is. people are silly.
2006-09-28 13:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by saimhain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excuse me! But, she dresses to get the attention..what is this all about. Give it a rest. You love her being hit on, so what's the problem here? Women assume that if you dress like a sl*t, then you are a sl*t...as long as they are not the ones wearing the tight jeans..when they wear them, it is fashion. Everything in life is relative.
2006-09-28 13:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about what other people think. If you're happy with you're girlfriend and she's happy with herself, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. No matter what any of us look like there's always going to be someone out there judging us, so just be happy the way you are.
2006-09-28 13:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Vlad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have I heard such a thing! Are you from the USA? Their must be a whole lot of easy women out there!
2006-09-28 15:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how easy or hot she is... Untill she quits smoking I would walk by and not look back. Chicks that smoke are not attractive in the least. just my opinion
2006-09-28 13:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Evolrider 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we all think that - that is why the guys stare and the women talk about her. It might not be true but you won't get anyone to believe any differently.
2006-09-28 13:36:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋