seein a girl that is into you but when it comes down to it is scared of commitment because of a previous relationship, how do ya or what can a person do to break them of that?
2006-09-28 06:17:37 · 9 answers · asked by Elliot L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only give them time...especially if they were BURNED really bad by the last person they were with...You can't force that kind of thing...You want a complete commitment...then give her space and let her know...YOU'RE NOT going anywhere! and be sweet...
2006-09-28 06:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do would to not bring it up. Don't throw the word committment around too much in front of her(or to her). It may scare her away altogether. Enjoy what you have and let it progress naturally.
2006-09-28 06:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop annoying her! You want commitment? then you either need to find someone who wants to settle down or you need to give her some space to breath.
2006-09-28 06:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elliot,
That's called bagage and you should not have to deal with it.
If she is so scared of commitment then she should not be dating and leading lovers down a path to nowhere.
Dump her.
2006-09-28 06:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your past was a bad dicision and a waste of time love and energy! just let the excess baggage go....dont let it affect your current relationship! she doesnt deserve this..she deserves the love u need to give her and the passion you need to ignite to keep it goin smooth! give it a calm n a cool thot! all the best
2006-09-28 06:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by m k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something that a person does on there on.So just wait and see what happens!!11
2006-09-28 06:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by jana j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait ... give her time ... and space ....
Then tell her to SNAP the hell out of it !!!!
Dr Bad (the real Hitch)
ps. I'm currently taking on new patients at my surgery ;-)
2006-09-28 06:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do. she has to be ready and willing to make the changes in her life. all you can do is show her that you really want to be with her and that you are different
2006-09-28 06:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything, it all on her she has to be willing to be open and let you in her heart. All you can do is wait and be there for her.
2006-09-28 06:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by soco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋