2006-09-28 06:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by FlossyQ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men don't communicate like us girls. Maybe you just need to accept that this is the case, and seek out your girly friends for a chat. If you need to communicate with him about something specific, then you need to sit him down and spell it out to him that you need to talk. as much as we would like them to be able to read our minds, they can't. I hope that kind of helps.
2006-09-28 06:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a two way process so you should open up the conversation by revealing yourselves.
Sit or kneel opposite one another and stare into each other's eyes.Focus and allow your breathing to come into synch.Do this for at least 5 minutes and you will quickly create a very intense connection.Then start your conversation with: "Sometimes I feel frustrated when............." or "If I didn't care what people thought I would ............." or "Eversince I was a child I ............. ."
Set aside time to talk, take half an hour 3 times a week just to communicate with one another about anything.Try to enjoy lots of non-sexual inimate contact.Wash his hair or let him shave your legs; its an intimate way to reconnect with one another.
Whilst doing all this try and show him why effective communication is important even giving referrence to why advertising tends to make people to buy something they may not need.Also tell him how you value the way he talks.
2006-09-28 14:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man is doing wht he likes most ie psp tv with friends or just cheking his mail dont bother comming to us with things that u think r more important , we can not do more than one thing at one time
pick ur moment proper and plzzz dont acuse , blame or treat as kids if u want to communicate .
most dudes will just look at u if u start sreaming or arguing
most of all if ur always right thn most men will never reasson with u ..................................this is from a man hope it helps
2006-09-28 13:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by 18 and over 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, or accept him as he is. If you ask people to change and they don't - it's a losing battle. You pretty much have to count on things continuing to be as they are, unless you learn your lessons and move on.
2006-09-28 13:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus - Best book I ever read!
2006-09-28 13:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by DippyGirl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this exact problem with my partner!
Dont react when he wants sex & next time he calls, sms, or emails you dont respond for a while.
It works for me
2006-09-28 13:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by jo p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many people in the world to have hang ups with one. find your match the one you find no fault in and then you will find the happiness you seek
2006-09-28 13:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Willyum 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take him as he is or move on. Or set a fire cracker tohis asss.
2006-09-28 13:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try communicattion with a new guy and make sure he knows about it! he's gonna come running!
2006-09-28 13:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by RAGE FURY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋