what's up with a guy when he tells you we can whaever you wanna to do. its your choice?

Question

hes says he's not shy and I he has 1 brother and sister brother.......and we can do whatever u want I"ll leave it up too u

exsuse me for my langage barrier but english is not my first language

im 26...........................

Answer 1

This phucking question is cryptic. What the hell are you trying to ask?

I got a headache trying to read this.

Answer 2

Most guys, when attracted to a girl, and I bet he is to you, have only one real thing on their mind. But because he will not take the chance you will be offended by it he puts it on you. That way if you say, well we could make love, then he not only knows where he stands but has not risked making you mad.

Most all guys have a burning desire to make love to a girl they find attractive. And I do mean burning. But most know that by saying so it may very well offend her. He will never understand why but he is not willing to risk it. Those same guys are very puzzled at what happens when guys who are not afraid to risk it ask and often recieve it.

So based upon the little you have said I think you need to ask him directly what he means.

Answer 3

Meep, double edged sword. Try asking him what he'd like to do. Does he like video games? Well then sit down and spend the time with him playing/learning his favorite video game. Try keeping your relationship balanced. One night you guys can do something for you, the next for him. If he likes a type of scary movie spend the night snuggled into him while you watch it with him. With a soda and popcorn of course. Just fun little things like that, even the small things can make the biggest impact.

Answer 4

He wants to be sure you're satisfied and he's willing to go or do whatever you want. He wants to please you. The bottom line is, however, he's afraid of making decisions for fear that it won't be what you want to hear. I used to have that problem. Next opportunity, just tell you would like for him to decide and go along with his his decision. After a few times, he should feel more comfortable and all should work out fine. Good luck.

Answer 5

First of all... huh...? Secondly take it from a guy if he's leaving the decesion making up to you is because he probably wants you to choose a place where you'll feel comfortable...since he's a guy he'll usually adapt to his enviroment

Answer 6

He wants you to make the right decison, but he really has fno right to tell you what you can do, becuase if he does it can come back to him. And y ou can end up blaming him because he told you to do it. But it is prbably better for you to do what you think is right anyways. IT IS YOUR LIFE NOT HIS!!! remember that because even if he wants to he is smart enough not to try.

Answer 7

He just probably doesn't know what you like to do. i usually give my dates like that a choice of three things that i'd like to do, e.g., we can a) go eat at Panera, b) play miniature golf, or c) go see the 7:15 showing of Flyboys. then he can pick. if he doesn't want to pick, then he really doesn't care and just wants to be with you, and pick the one you want to do the most.

Answer 8

maybe he is unsure himself what he wants to do and to compensate for that he says that ya'll can do what you want to do. Or maybe he is just being considerate.

Answer 9

And how old are you little girl? Does your mommy know your playing on here????

Answer 10

YOUR QUESTION WOULD BE EASIER TO ANSWER IF IT MADE SENSE. I THINK YOU ARE SAYING HE IS LEAVING YOUR DATE UP TO YOU. THE SISTER-BROTHER THING DON'T MAKE SENSE. HE IS TRYING TO PLEASE YOU THAT'S WHY HE IS GIVING YOU THE CHOICE.