ok....see.... iam head over heels in LOVE with this guy...the thing is he already has a girlfriend....but,i feel that i should let him know about my feelings for him...iam very obsessed with him,and if i let him know,then maybe my obsession will subside.....so,iam planning on writing him an email,as hes staying in a different place for the timebeing.....[extra info-and i look hot and beautiful].....so,what should i write to him and will he respond? and,also what would you do if you were in his place? what and how should i present the email....?? plzzz answer truthfully........ means a lot.... thank you....!
is it safe to include a picture?? or,will he think iam being sluty.....i ve never donr this before,its just that i love him aaaa lot.....i dont want him to think bad about me
2006-09-28 05:59:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the things you're eventually going to learn, and which you consider learning with this experience, is that you pretty much have to bite the bullet.
So don't send him a letter. Tell him. It's hard, it's embarrassing, and it's potentially socially devastating. But let's face it: you want to care for him. And maybe he would like to care for you. He's pretty busy right now. But maybe he's not all that happy. So let him know that you're around.
Tell him that you like him. Tell him that you would like to do things with him. Tell him your number and ask him if he would like to hang out.
That's pretty much all you have going.
And don't think it's the end of the world. And by the way: You're not being slutty. You're just being honest.
What's the big deal about that?
2006-09-28 06:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you gonna do if that email ends up on the walls all over school? If it gets into the wrong hands you could be the laughing stock of everybody!
Don't do something stupid. If you have feelings for this guy and he's taken - GET THE CLUE! He's taken. You will probably come off looking like some slut if you start to stalk this dude and he's already in love with someone else!
Do you want to be a home-wrecker when you grow up? Are you going to be one of them "Other Woman" people that women hate more than ironing?
If you have something to say to this guy I highly recommend doing it in person somehow in a quiet place where nobody can get loud? Library?
Anything you put in writing can come back to bite you in the butt more sure than my next door neighbor's dog! Remember it can be used against you in a Court of Law and in our State "stalking" is against the law. Don't get yourself in trouble young lady!
...............think about it..................
2006-09-28 13:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by MsEagleTX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mail goes like this:
"Dear Dick!
I am writing this mail out of sheer frustration. Whenever I see you with that dumb b i t c h, my p u s s y quivers with a sens e of repulsion. I feel its my carnal duty to save you from the disgrace of fornicating with that dirty s l u t.
I am better looking and skilled in the matters of erection and sustenance thereof, until the big bang.
To present you an evidence of how hot I am, I am attaching a few jpg images of my slit.
Please call me as soon as you see them.
I would be waiting for with my open legs...,
your horny s l u t...
< end game>
2006-09-28 13:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to build the friendship in your relationship slowly, but do not cross the line to making it a love interest until he breaks up with the other woman. By all means, communicate with him, but restrain yourself until you know he is truly interested and willing to commit to you alone.
2006-09-28 13:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very complicated, how do u know him? Does he even know u? If u r hot then send ur pic, but what r u goin to write? Don't tell him that u love that might freak him out. I need more info.(details)
2006-09-28 13:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK its like this BE CAREFUL most men only want 1 thing from a woman do be pushy or you will be hurt and that is the truth god luck
2006-09-28 13:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't let him know you have a crush on him. Particularly if he's a jock.
If you must send a note, keep it simple and innocent, yo know "hi, how ya doin', what's the weather like there?"
2006-09-28 13:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, slow down for a minute. he's taken and you don't want to be the cause of their break up. it wont sit well to all three people involve. tell your friends to get it off your chest. but don't tell him. think about it. how would you feel if you're his gf and some girl is flirting with your bf? my advice is to move on, this one is taken. you'll feel better about yourself. trust me.
2006-09-28 13:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off asa secret admirer then come out into the open gradually
2006-09-28 13:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by ssuasw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WE WONT THINK BAD OF YOU IF U SEND NAUGHTY PICS SO DO IT>>THATS THE ONLY WAY YOOULLL GET HIM
2006-09-28 13:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋