Now, we can go by weeks without a phone call or a single text message. We email each other almost daily, but are they enough to make sure that he's still thinking of me? We're living in different time zones. That aside, he has a long term gf and I know that, but he never mentions her at all, so it feels to me that he's single. I know I'm living in serious delusion but I'm too much into him to let go for now. There hasn't been any consensus of us being in a formal relationship during these 2 odd months, but we do feel for each other and we say stuff like 'miss u' and 'love u' to each other now and then, albeit via emails.
2006-09-28 05:50:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He usually does the calling, I would like to call but I dont want to call at an unopportune time i.e. when the gf is around. I know this is going nowhere and he's not going to end his existing relationship for me because we live too far apart and the fact is, he met me later. He was the one who initiated this, and I liked him too much to say no. Is he cheating on his gf with me? Does he like me more than her if he's doing this?
2006-09-28 06:01:22 · update #1
Most people seem to be missing the point - HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. It doesn't matter what you feel about him he is screwing with you - be it your head or whatever.
Are you into him enough to write him emails while he is on his honeymoon, how about after he is married, or lets say you get together and he and you make beautiful love and create a baby - will you be emailing him from the labor room that he cant come to because he is in another relationship?
If he isn't talking about her - you should be. he is a cheat and a long distance relationship to him is a license to screw around. If you don't believe me open your eyes - he is already screwing around on his girlfriend with you.
You can do better, way better.
2006-09-28 05:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relation ship for a full year and I am telling you now that emails are deffently not enouff. If you can call at some point in the day. Also letters in the mail are pretty nice too.
2006-09-28 05:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cute picture of you via snail mail for his wallet would not hurt. Or just a card to mix it up long distance is hard but it can work if you want it to. How do you think most actors and actresses that do stay together do our top stars are always away on location but some make it work so keep your chin up!
2006-09-28 06:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any lengthy distance relationship will choose extremely some paintings to live on. the genuine wrongdoer right here isn't your boyfriend, yet your ex. What company does he have digging up airborne dirt and mud and interfering in what's meant to be your own company? and likewise too, why are you protecting contact with him if he's your ex no matter if he would only be a "pal", nevertheless you're also chatting with a boy perfect? it type of feels double regularly happening that you'll get mad that your boyfriend talks to females, yet right here you're protecting contact consisting of your meddlesome ex. human beings are social creatures, we received't no longer confer with human beings. i trust your boyfriend isn't sound asleep round yet only protecting a social existence. Your accusations on your boyfriend are what's popping out to be a larger distance (yet this time emotional distance) between both of you. the precedence received't clean up in case you tell him that if he talks to females anymore, then you actually will confer with boys. It would not make experience, and it isn't a healthful approach. this does no longer toughen his trust in you in case you assert that. in case you somewhat favor this paintings, you want to inform your ex to position off, and also you want to have a significant communicate consisting of your boyfriend and be conscious the position it is going through discussing if this relationship is nicely worth pursuing or in case you 2 favor to easily only flow on. sturdy success Gemini sunlight, Scorpio moon
2016-11-25 00:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARe they enough for what? for you to fall in love - yes, for you to have an actuall relationship - no. Time zones shouldn't be an issue in long distance love.
You need to come right out and ask him what his plans are for the two of you, for him, for his relationship with his "long term gf". open honest communication is very very crutial to long distance love in order to grow beyond the lust part.
2006-09-28 05:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after awhile emails arent going to be enough, you're going to want something more out of a realatoinship. the time zone is really hard to deal with as well. why dont you just be with someone in your own area?
2006-09-28 05:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, that sounds weird. I couldn't imagine having my relationship with my husband over email. We've been talking almost every day for 5 years and are only recently married.
To me it sounds like you're growing apart.
2006-09-28 05:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel dumb for asking about this. He's either only stringing you along for some potential on the side sex, or shopping around on his long term girlfriend. Enjoy.
2006-09-28 05:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so he has a girlfriend, locally and you two barely talk or communicate? What are you holding on to? You dont have a chance, move on!
2006-09-28 05:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's got a girlfriend, don't get in the way. be a NICE female and bug off
2006-09-28 05:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by daisy6570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋