my bf like and another girl but he want to be with me?

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Answer 1

committed - adj
1: bound or obligated, as under a pledge to a particular cause, action, or attitude
2: associated in an exclusive sexual relationship [syn: attached]

relationship - noun
1.a connection, association, or involvement.
2.connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3.an emotional or other connection between people: the relationship between teachers and students.
4.a sexual involvement; affair.

friendship – noun
1.the state of being a friend; association as friends: to value a person's friendship.
2.a friendly relation or intimacy.
3.friendly feeling or disposition.

When someone is in a "committed relationship", they should no longer persue active friendships with the opposite sex. Why? because the only reason that men persue a "friendship" with a woman is 1) because she is attractive and 2) because they want to have sex with them. Women, if you don't believe me try this. Ask one of your male "friends" out to dinner and over dinner ask them if they find you attractive - after they say yes, ask them if they would like to sleep with you (a no strings attached thing as you still want to keep them as a friend).

This is not the same thing as someone going someplace and chatting with someone of the opposite sex. Chances are.. if you go someplace, there will be both men and women there and it will be difficult to NOT talk to someone of the opposite sex - in fact it would be considered rude if you didn't.

That said, if your "significant other" is activly trying to chat up someone when they go out they are telling you that their level of "committment" and yours to your "relationship" is not the same and there needs to be some sort of discussion that goes something like this: "I'd like to take this to the next level and become and exclusive couple in that we are only intimate with each other (monogomous).. what do you think" - the important part of this converstation is to get an agreement from the other person. IF YOU DON'T then you are NOT in a monogmous relationship!!!!! (ie you are still free to date others folks and the whole "committed relationship" doesn't exist).

Answer 2

Don't sell yourself short, leave him before he leaves you for the other girl.

Answer 3

you need help with english first.