6 months ago(long time) a guy that I've known for many years(we were good friends) ask me to be his girlfriend....and I've said him no...I've only want to be his friend(not lover)....he has sufered a period of time and I'm sorry for that....now he had another girlfriend and I know he don't love her(one week ago he has invited me to a party because he told me he feels shamed with her).....now I feel I love him...maybe I love him since then....I don't know what to do....I need an advice..please help me
2006-09-28 05:46:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
Well, sometimes the mind and heart play many tricks on each other. you might think you love him now because you know he's taken, the feeling of lost is a powerful force. you think your losing something good and now you want it. but you two have a history together, your friends, and he did confess his feelings for you. i think you two should talk about your feelings before you act on your feelings. and if you both want to be together, ask him to gentlely let down the girl he's with. either way, feelings will get hurt, love is a risky buisness.
2006-09-28 06:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by usm.corps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him and try to get to know him better, before you decide if you are in love or not. Sometimes you realize how much you care for someone when you are apart for awhile and sometimes you just think you love someone when you really just do not know them that well.
2006-09-28 13:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by shepherd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him or are you just jelous?Think carefully, you could break alot of hearts including your own. Telll you guy freind that he should mess his girlfreind around like that, and that if she finds out he could really hurt her.And remember if he can do this to her he can do it to you!x~hope this helps~x
2006-09-28 12:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by chicagochick_93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this question in Community Service? Are you really saying something else?
If you like him and you think maybe he likes you, then tell him!
2006-09-28 12:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk and kiss him, then see how it feels and more importantly see how you feel afterwards and if you cant wait to see him etc, then you'll know.
2006-09-28 12:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by jonny Atlantis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋