club one night and had sex with 2 girls. one of them is pregnant now with my child! i am sad because im keeping this from my girlfriend of 2 years. should itell her or keep lying to her??
2006-09-28 05:38:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DAMN!!! I feel really bad for you if u are sincere... I have gotten tore down toasted drunk a couple of times and i know what it is not to think clearly. I do believe u mad a mistake and you obviously regret it. I would first talk to the girl that is pregnant because its not fair to bring that child into a mess especially if neither of you really wanted it. i wouldn't tell her oh u gotta go to the clinic now but tell her to think about what is best for the interest of the child and maybe its better not to have it at this time. Then going on what ever decision comes out of that i would confront your girlfriend because she has the right to know the truth. but don't expect her to say its okay i love you anyway she is going to be mad as hell but give her sometime and if she is really worth it and u love her don't let her go without a fight let her know u would do anything to keep her
2006-09-28 06:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Laprincessa1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting Drunk is no excuse.
You have an obligation to that Child, not just money, but also in being a true Father. The Child will bring you great joy.
Don't kill the baby, it is not it's fault. Don't compound your mistake.
Tell your girlfriend, she deserves to know, then the choice is up to her.
Living life a lie is not the way to happiness, and NOT fair to your "wonderful woman", pray that you don't give her a STD, she deserves better.
I might suggest that you go to AA, it sounds like there might be a problem there.
Peace, and I will Pray for You, Your Girlfriend, the Women you abused and the innocent Child you created.
2006-09-28 12:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM AND YOU DID'NT MAKE A MISTAKE, HEAR ME WELL THIS IS THE END RESULT OF YOUR SORRY BUTT BEHAVIOR!! YOU SLEPT WITH THE TWO WOMEN NOT CAUSE YOU WERE DRUNK ( YOU WANTED TO, THE ALCOHOL JUST GAVE YOU AN EXCUSE) BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE WEAK, YOU NEED TO GET REAL WITH BOTH THE WOMAN YOU CALL WONDERFUL AND CHEATED ON, IN DUPLICATE, AND YOURSELF. NOT TO MENTION THE SORROW I FEEL FOR THE CHILD BEING BROUGHT INTO THIS MESS, THO, I HAVE TO ASK, IF THE WOMAN WAS AT THE CLUB, AND HAD SEX WITH SOME DRUNK AND ANOTHER WOMAN, MAYBE YOU NEED TO GET THE DNA? HOWEVER YOU STILL OWE YOUR WOMAN THE CHANCE TO LEAVE YOUR TAIL FOR CAUSE. MAN UP AND TELL THE TRUTH!
2006-09-28 12:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want her to hear it from you or when the girl shows up to tell her? Or better yet when you get a court order for child support? Tell her now and maybe some day she may forgive you and then again maybe not. Shouldn't drink if you can't handle your actions when drunk. You weren't thinking about your girl that night. So ask yourself if you really care anyway. Let her find a real man somewhere else that won't break her heart like you did so carelessly.
2006-09-28 12:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being drunk is no excuse , if cheated on your ole lady , I have been plenty drunk and coulda done the same thing many times over , but guess what ....I aint a scumbag cheater ........you are a cheater and a real punk too .......blame your character defects on booze shame on you man ........ you give decent men a bad name ........just come clean and deal with your life man , what is lying some more gonna do , it will prolong the misery and everybody envolved will hate your guts ........... you need to be a father to your kid , it dont matter if it was a drunken one night stand ....... you better buck up and be a good daddy , or your actions have not only runied your girlfriends life buy noe the life of a little baby ....... you still have a chance to do one thing right here , and that is go support that mother and baby.........
2006-09-28 12:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta tell her. Tell the truth. If your girlfriend loves you, she will be hurt at first but time should heal her. If not, you must live your life. The one in the club was being irresponsible and so were you, and you both will live with this for the rest of your lives. However, you don't have to stop living at all. Tell the one you love the truth. You will sleep better at night. Be prepared for her first response which will be anger. If you live together, start packing your stuff early so you can exit.
2006-09-28 12:42:37 · answer #6 · answered by Papatia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and tell her the truth and be prepared to deal with whatever the outcome is cause lying never gets you anywhere but deeper in whatever mess you are in! Good Luck
2006-09-28 12:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by liliw24 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a no brainer if your blaming being drunk you needed a scape goat to get out of the relationship. I know I been there before. Your a player in sheeps clothing.
2006-09-28 12:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you, Usher?! Tell her and don't be surprised if she dumps your ***. Obviously if one of them is pregnant you didn't use a condom so you may have already given your poor girlfriend some kind of STD, considering the type of women who have sex with random drunk strangers they meet in a bar without a condom. Get yourself tested, tell her to get tested, and don't drink so goddamn much.
2006-09-28 14:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth has a way of coming out...You might as well fess up because your girlfriend will find out one way or another...Take your punishment like a man.
2006-09-28 12:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋