am engaged 2 a great man. I am so much in love with him & I think about him all the time. He likes 2 talk friendly with girls. When we go 2 the store together I always noticed him being overly friendly with girls. He is in his late 30's & I am in my mid 30's. Sometimes some of these girls look like they are teenagers. But I feel threatened by it. He also travels for work & I fear he is going 2 be friendly with girls out of town & they might missunderstand him. He even asked one girl at a store what church she goes to & he told me that she was cute then he said not as cute as me. Then the next day he went to the same store to buy something 4 me. He was looking at her hard. She looks like a teenager. He tells me that he will never leave me & that I am the best think that has ever happened 2 him & that he loves me more than anything. But I am still worried. I saw an email address he hid from me in his room. I didn't ask. I fear he has email addresses that I don' know about. I'm sad.
2006-09-28 05:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not paranoid hes got a roving eye! as long as he dont forget where he lives lol you got nothing to worry about
2006-09-28 05:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're paranoid, so much as not standing up for what you need to feel secure in a relationship with him. I had a boyfriend who always looked at other women since that was who he was. It bothered me, so I told him and he admitted that it was an integral part of him. I had to decide to either accept it or move on. I moved on. Yes, I'm a possessive mo-fo and I'm honest about it. I suggest telling him how his actions make you feel and OWN them. There's no need to apologize for needing your guy to not salivate over teenagers in public. That's what porn drawers or for. I don't see it as an issue of 'will he leave' since there's no way to tell at this point. It's an issue of what you're comfortable with dealing with.
2006-09-28 05:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Brianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that, and it caused problems. What I was doing I considered innocent, but my partner felt like you do...it was threatening. You have 2 choices. You can develop a thicker hide and love him for who he is. He's a rover, and has a roving eye. He appreciates women but you'll have to be satisfied that he, at least, is yours. You can't stop this behavior or put an end to it. If you try, you'll stifle him and he'll resent it. Your second choice is to move on if this behavior is more than you can tolerate.
2006-09-28 05:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are paranoid but i'm not saying he would do anything either, i think you should talk to him about it and tell him how much it worries you don't argue about it just talk.
2006-09-28 05:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u r
2006-09-28 05:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by mz_liciousness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are!
2006-09-28 05:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will "eat outdoors"
2006-09-28 05:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by AJK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋