There is this girl that I didn't really like, at first I didn't feel I was attracted to her at all, but she gave me her number and made me feel she was interested in me. I didn' wanna call her, but I did anyways, we've been talking for a couple of weeks now, and now I love to be around her. Whenever I don't see her or talk to her I feel awful like something is missing. Her freinds and mine say that she likes me a lot and she thinks I'm cute. My view of her just completly changed for some reason now I feel more than attracted to her. Now I feel like I want to be more than friends with her but don't know how to tell her and don't know if she'll accept since she still might have feelings for her ex. Should I make a move on her or just forget it?
2006-09-28 05:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by Tone_Loc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-28 05:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Duncarin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make the move! When I meet my girlfriend for the first time I thought she was rude and didn't like men at all. So I wrote her off. About 4 days later, she emailed me on a singles site, and after about ten email we went out on a date, and have dating for about a year now! Don't know how I would live without her! So, you should go for it! Whats the worst that can happen? She dumps you, you move on. Or she is the love of your life? If you don't try, you wont know.... Good luck!
2006-09-28 05:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The exact same situation happened to me at the beginning of the summer. I'm in college, and a girl from class that I wasn't really interested in kept talking to me and gave me her phone number at the end of the semester. So I called, expecting nothing, and we ended up dating for four months. I ended up falling like crazy for her. Until this monday, when she confessed to me she was a lesbian and was only going out with me because she wanted me to be happy and make her parents think she wasn't a lesbian. But she wasn't happy being being with me, so she dumped me and now she wants to be friends. This is probably a rare case, but the point is... be careful and don't get too serious too fast.
2006-09-28 05:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by MEGAWALRUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask ur and her friends 2 let her know that u want 2 be more than friends and u feel awful with out her. may be u can ask her best friend if she still has afeeling 2 her ex and she'll tell u and she gave u her number it must be 4 somhin in her mind that she had planned
2006-09-28 05:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Muslim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Just take things slow. Your view of her changed because you got to know her personally and really liked her. That made her all the more attractive to you. Good luck.
2006-09-28 05:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she gave you her number then she obviously liked something about you so take advantage of that-- just try hanging out with her as much as possible and see what happens, i bet by being around her alot you'll eventually get to the point where you find the perfect time to tell her what you feel-- easier said then done but ya know... there's no point in being scared of saying something that's true
2006-09-28 05:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you already think she likes you and you like her talk to her tell her how you feel it sounds like she wants more anyhow so it is all about talk to her ask her what she wants in life right now if she wants to be more then just friends
2006-09-28 05:20:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a move, lover boy, what's the worse thing going to happen? she says no? then at least, you get an answer instead of wasting your time undeciding what to do and you can move on.
2006-09-28 05:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by themysterious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter HOW your feelings came about. They just have. Ask her out on a fun date and see how that goes.
2006-09-28 05:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds interested to me. I think you should give it a shot.
2006-09-28 05:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋