I can't imagine that after a person goes off like he did that he would call back. We never had real sex just lots of petting - naked petting. After he got "his" he starts talking crazy to me. I'm not sure why I even care so much. I think I just want to tell him off and have the last word. What do you think?
2006-09-28 05:14:55 · 19 answers · asked by Fun Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is verbal abuse. Don't put up with that.Not to mention emotional & mental abuse. It sounds like he wants to control you (abuse) - sexually. Been there - Done that. Please don't go there - spare yourself the pain & hardships. There are NICE guys out there. Don't just settle for one that treats you like that. Move on & get better! You can do it & you will love yourself more for doing so. No man is worth having poor self esteem, little or no respect, confidence ect. Don't get down to his level - just say you don't appreciate how he treated you (if he calls) & tell him not to contact you again. If you let him get away with it once - he will do it again & it might be physical next time. Yha is after all how it all starts - verbal, mental, emotional, sexual - then Physical> You don't want that.
2006-09-28 05:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy starts yelling, it's because of something else that happened. You don't say. Maybe he wanted sex and you said no. (Very smart, by the way). Couples have to respect each other and you didn't get that. If he's treating you bad, even verbally, you don't want him to come back. If you're meant to be with other, he'll call back, if not, let him go.
2006-09-28 05:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I do when I have an arguement or am just pissed at my boyfriend is I write down why I'm so angry. Sometimes I write him a letter but I do not give it to him because that would make things worse.
Asking us when he'll call is really something we can't answer. Only he knows if he'll call. I think you should just take a break and give it time.
You are full of anger and you need to get it out because you will just resent him more and more.
2006-09-28 05:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the best you can do in this situation is just let him cool off. Sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment that aren't really a reflection of how he feels.
He will/should come to you when everyone sees the errors of their ways. Be thankful that you're in a relationship that he actually shows passion. There are plenty out there that can only wish their significant other could show that kind of emotion.
2006-09-28 05:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want to have the last word too. However, if he can get you involved in naked petting, I'm betting he can get you to go back with him... so he can dump you again.
2006-09-28 05:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy thinks he can treat you like this after only 3months, I'm afraid it'll only get worse:-S
Agressive and violent behaviour is a sure sign that he might not be able to control his own temper..
2006-09-28 05:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've already made up your mind that this relationship is over and done with. So why even wait around for him to call? Forget about him and find someone you can have fun with!
2006-09-28 05:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by pete_can_do 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did he go off on you like that? Did you offend him because you thought he was being selfish? I think he will call you once he has cooled off but I'm not sure you should want him to.
2006-09-28 05:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your reason for wanting to talk to him is just to have the last word then that is really stupid. Just let it go. If you really love him and don't want the relationship to end then put your ego aside and call him.
2006-09-28 05:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋