my b f and i have problem and if you read my eariler question you know them but the thing is sex i am a virgin and he wants sex what do i do
The name of the other question is i need help and a lot of it please answer asap? check it out if you want to learn more about the problem
2006-09-28 05:12:38 · 13 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then tell him
2006-09-28 05:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose not to have sex before marriage and this guy won't respect that, then he's not the one for you. Wait until your ready and you have no doubts to begin a sexual relationship with any man.
Btw, there are so many std's out there.. No guy is worth a lifetime of having herpes or much worse HIV.
I would really reconsider your motives to have sex until your ready.
2006-09-28 12:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by one_daytripper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready to have sex?
If you are not then tell him that your not ready if he loves you he will understand.
If you give in to what he wants then you will never truly enjoy sex and your sexuality. Try making love things that will lead to sex but you have to be in control go as far as you are comfortable and you both have to work from there. Do not be pressured into any thing.
2006-09-28 12:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by kkj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worried about the sex when your in an abusive relationship. Do your really think if you have sex with him things will get better? News flash for you it will not. There is nothing you can do to make it better. You are just in the wrong relationship period.
2006-09-28 12:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he wants to doesn't mean you have to. You have sex when you are ready for YOU not for HIM. It's your choice and if he doesn't respect that then he isn't worth your time or your heart. Respect your body. The first time cannot be taken back. If it's not special and you are not ready you will regret it for a long time.
2006-09-28 12:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it then don't because it is up to you when you are ready or not. If he take no for an answer you might as well leave him. Or just put up with him until you are ready. Don't let him talk you into doing something you don't want to do ok. If he keeps it up then talk him to back off.
2006-09-28 12:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Waterfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell him ur a virgin and ur not ready....if he really cares about u, he'll understand, if he tries to pressure u or gets mad, kick him to the curb he aint worth it. i am 22 and still a V...and my boyfriend totally respects it, i am one by choice...treasure it as long as u can girl, guys will resect u a lot more for it no matter what htey tell u now...take care of urself ma
2006-09-28 12:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't do it, you only get one first time and it has to be when you are ready!! Besides men value you more when you are pure so don't give it up until you are ready and if it is not with him that is his loss but if he really loves you he will Waite and if he really really loves you then he will make you his wife!
2006-09-28 12:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your other question you said he hit you? You tell that S.O.B. to stay away from you and you go find another boyfriend. You don't need to have sex with him, that's all he wants. He doesn't need it from you he can get that anywhere. You go on about your own life and don't worry about him. Find someone worthy of you.
2006-09-28 12:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you, he'll find other outlets to satisfy himself. Don't give in just because he wants it. If you're not ready, then don't do it. That's all there is to it. If he can't accept it, he's not worth your time.
2006-09-28 12:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfortable with sex right now explain your views to your boyfriend. you should wait until marriage but thats up to you. if your boyfriend won't accept your answer then its time to fine someone who will respect your wishes
2006-09-28 12:16:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋