6 months ago(long time) a guy that I've known for many years(we were good friends) ask me to be his girlfriend....and I've said him no...I've only want to be his friend(not lover)....he has sufered a period of time and I'm sorry for that....now he had another girlfriend and I know he don't love her.....now I feel I love him...maybe I love him since then....I don't know what to do....I need an advice..please help me
2006-09-28 04:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
I have been in a very similar situation before, and I felt that I had very strong feelings for someone as soon as he was with someone else. Now I can only speak from personal experience, but I can almost guarantee that those feelings will fade as soon as he is available again. It's only human nature to want what you can't have, everyone craves something that is unattainable. If you didn't have feelings for him when he was available - then you will probably never have real feelings for him. My best advice is to continue being friends and don't rush things - if it was meant to be - he will break up with this new girl and your feelings will continue to grow for each other. Hope I could help you!!
2006-09-28 04:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by suzieh212006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you wanted to be his friend then thats what you meant otherwise you to would be together right now. You feel that way because you've known him for a long time and it hurt you as much as it hurt him. If he's got someone then thats who he likes until you know something different. I hope you can find some kind of advice with what i've just explained.
Good luck, Rob
2006-09-28 11:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you don't love him; you're just jealous of the fact that he has a new gf.
Forget about him; you're obviously not compatible. Just leave him alone. Be his friend, if he asks for advice, but otherwise, don't call him. get another life.
2006-09-28 11:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen !! Don't go out with him !! Once you have decided you dont like him stay with that. You are just lonely and want someone -- stay alone until you meet the right guy - one you love. You will regret it if you go out with him - I've done this with girls before and I regreted it
2006-09-28 13:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best---for some reason you hid your feelings from this person--and youve suffered for it---now he has another relationship--i think you should tell him the truth about how you feel--but be aware that he has moved on and it might be to late for you----at least youll feel better having told him how you really feel
2006-09-28 11:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with him. See what he says and give a relationship a try.
2006-09-28 18:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to that guy how you feel about him. tell him not to play with the other girl's heart.. if he really likes you & you really like him; you guys should be a couple. good luck!
2006-09-28 11:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by jv637 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From his persective If you really really want something, you can't have it. Unless you stop wanting it, then you can have it. But it doesn't really matter anymore because you don't want it anyway.
2006-09-28 11:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should listen to the Avril Lavigne song 'Skater Boy'.. I think that fits your situation.. :)
2006-09-28 11:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋