Hi there, my ex boyfriend sent me this message which was meant for another girl " hey so do you still like me, why did you tell tom (his mate and her cousin) what i said to you that was between you and me" when i asked him about it, he eventually said that this girl faniced him, but that it was a harmless message. I got it at 11pm in the night when he said he was very very drunk. Was I right to dump him. He still texts me a long time later and says the only reason we ever broke up was because he wasnt ready for committment.
2006-09-28 04:24:03 · 23 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was right for you to dump him, find someone else who is ready for commitment.
2006-09-28 04:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need to ask that question your boy has you so fooled your being played wake up hes got others on the side i know that's not what you want to hear but the truth hurts hes a player and from the sounds of it hes played you yes he was drunk cause if he wouldn't have been then he wouldn't have sent it to you by accident and you still wouldn't know about the other girl you should be happy that hes stupid when hes drunk so your not the butt of hes jokes with his boys no more cause I'm sure he was bragging about having numerous girls and getting away with it
Im so glad you dumped him you deserve way better
2006-09-28 04:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by roonie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did a good job dumping that loser, go you! There are plenty of more guys out there that won't get drunk and message some girl that likes him because the only girl that should matter to him is you! But you see how far that got you. I think you did a good decision.Let him think what he wants to think to make his mind feel better about what he did. Stay strong you did a good thing.
2006-09-28 04:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was sending another girl an intimate text, firstly if you were a friend of mine Id question why he shad this girls number, secondly I would say he cant be trusted. We all know what a late night friday drinking session is like we all get a bit I know who Im gonna text......usually someone you fancy and what to have bit of a flirt, no doubt he still regrets it and wants a relationship with you but come on can you trust him, I know I couldnt. Just leave him to it.
2006-09-28 04:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by pixilated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have dumped him too! Yeah, how could he have been ready for committment when texting other girls? And the funny part is he's probably gonna screw up and send his new girl a message meant for you!! lol!
2006-09-28 04:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by JETT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady you probably did the suitable undertaking with the help of kicking his butt to the cut back he's stuffed with s#$%. at first he had no good deliver no damn textual content fabric message to the chick besides being that he grow to be in a relationship. no be counted how probability unfastened he thought it grow to be it wasn't probability unfastened. He grow to be attempting to fish out information and notice if the girl grow to be feeling him etc which might have then bring about him messing along with her at the back of yo back. however the subject is his dumb a#$ despatched it to the incorrect individual and have been given caught. Being under the impression of alcohol had not something to do with something he's largely a mendacity a#$ dogs. you probably did good with the help of letting his a#$ bypass reason you stored your self a great number of heartache activity nicely executed.
2016-10-01 11:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very Estupiodo!! They always say drunks tell teh truth and text who they are thinking about. Gurl you did right dont question it just live.
2006-09-28 04:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the right. Do you text men at 11pm? Drunk or not he shouldn't have done it.
2006-09-28 04:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he was either cheating or planning to cheat. Don't listen to his BS cover up stories!
2015-09-10 10:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you busted him being sneeky. There's no excuse for being drunk when he did it either. Usually, when you're drunk, true feelings come out that you are trying to hide when you're sober .
2006-09-28 04:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋