Depends on the state, but my assumption is that the courts start to listen to the CHILD when they turn 12 and allow them to decide when they are 13
2006-09-28 04:24:32
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answer #1
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answered by Rez 5
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the court is only going to look at who has the best interest for the childs care and safety, so if u r cutting the father down and things of that nature it's not going to work in your favor , u need to have a good job a good home and show a great interest in the child and concern for your child , that's what is going to count
2006-09-28 04:25:48
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answered by cc 4
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Many Judges in many states will ask the child if they have a preference as to where they live at the age of 12 and up depending on the state...So that would depend on the state you live in and the judge.
2006-09-28 04:24:34
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answered by Suthern R 5
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I'm not too sure but I guess that if the son's complaining enough the court will just be fed up and sen him to live with you
2006-09-28 04:24:49
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answered by KC 2
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my sister is in court now for this, her daughter is 13 and does not want to see her father, she has her own lawyer, she can do what she wishes as soon as she is 14 so there milking it in court till then, she has a month to go... this is in california
2006-09-28 04:26:44
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answered by fuxaround 2
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It depends on his age, and the life arrangements of the parent in question. Need more info then i may can help, also what state.
2006-09-28 04:26:06
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answered by bigdaddysdoll05 2
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yes they do, they r old enough to say who they want to live with,but i dont know ur situation, so the judge must choose whats best for the child. u can look into it futher, i would talk to some kind of lawyer and see what can be done. good luck.
2006-09-28 04:28:25
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answered by spades_intimidator 2
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He needs his own lawyer or advocate. Start making phone calls.
2006-09-28 04:24:55
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answered by risa131313 3
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