me and my boyfriend been together awhile i love him with all my heart he says he loves me to i beleive him. he's thoughtful, sweet, romantic he's everything i ever wanted in a guy. this is my first yr in college im studying to be a nurse just yesterday my bf asked me to marry him and i was excited because i want to be married to him but i wanted to finish college first. thats always been my goal. should i marry him? would being married and going to school at the same time work.
if you could answer this i'd apreciate it and no im not confused if thats what you're thinking i just want your opinion on this. thanks
2006-09-28 04:19:52 · 13 answers · asked by scynthiafrancois2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not accept his proposal, but set the wedding date for after your graduation? Nothing says that you have to get married in a big hurry after you get engaged...
2006-09-28 04:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can say yes to marriage, just have a long engagement, one that would last until you are finished, or almost finished with college. Also, it may be better financially for the both of you to be single while in college.
2006-09-28 04:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Justice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey you can say yes do you know how long an engagement will last that way you will have time 2 figure out if this is what you really want.............or he's afraid that you'll find someone else somethimes our partners are more afraid of the life you might find outside of them So take your time and think things through but don't take too long because you'' ll only get confused, if you think you are better than the things you settle for hold out for something better and that's one life mystery you conquered once more
2006-09-28 04:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can accept his proposal, but tell him you want to set a date after your graduation. If you get married now, you may get pregnant, put off your college and never get a chance to finish. That would be a sad waste of your talent.
2006-09-28 04:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say YES. If he really loves you and you are meant to be, he will understand how you feel and support your dreams and goals. If you are going to spend the rest of your lives together anyway, what's the rush? Just extend the engagement until graduation.
2006-09-28 04:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Echo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you want to wait until you are done with school then you two can get married. There's nothing wrong with a long engagement.
2006-09-28 04:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still say yes and just set a date later for after you get out of collage! Don't let a good guy go cause you will never find another like him!! Good Luck Sweetie!!
2006-09-28 04:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question. you stated that you want to finish school and you want to marry him then go for it. as long as you stay positive and focus on your education, if this person is right for you why past it up. you only live once. congrats and good luck.
2006-09-28 04:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its entirely possible to be married and go to school at the same time. Congrats and good luck!!!
2006-09-28 04:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school first, it may be your only chance.
2006-09-28 04:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋