LOOK WHEN I WANTED TO COMMIT I GOT IT THEN I GOT SCARED AND CALLED IT OFF SO WHAT SHOULD I DO? I HATE BEING THIS WAY BUT I DONT WANT TO GET OLD AND STAY ALONE.......... I HAVE NEVER REALLY BEEN SINGLE BUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE I LITTERALLY BLACK OUT I MEAN SERIOUSLY WHAT DO I DO ............... IF YOU ARE A LADY AND STILL SINGLE PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE AND WELL ANYONE ELSE IS WELCOME TO AS WELL
2006-09-28 03:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not ready to commit because you haven't met that right guy. Your not sure if you want to spend the rest of your life with him, when you meat the RIGHT guy, you'll know, and you'll be ready to settle down.
2006-09-28 03:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe your fear of committment is so common. Everyone has it to a degree. It is usually there to warn us that perhaps we could be making a mistake. Dont hate yourself for being cautious!
The only time it is a problem is if your hurting someone else that you really and truly love. If you are hurting someone with your behaviour stop! It should be easier to let go of these feelings if your with someone you completely trust.
If you cant stop or dont stop when you meet the one, then force yourself to trust! Because fear of getting hurt is that 'committment phobics' have!! Good Luck!! xx
2006-09-28 04:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it's okay for not wanting to sign the paper just yet. live together, know the person. you're just not ready to jump in to the unknown. from all the rumors around you about marriage going down hill or people changed when they sign the dotted line. so, there's nothing wrong with being single.
2006-09-28 03:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature sweety. Look around nature... show me mammals that mate for life rather than convenience.
Monogomy is humans trying to outsmart nature... and the process is crashing down on itself.
2006-09-28 03:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are afraid of losing your freedom, that is why you don't commit!
2006-09-28 03:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't trust a man. I
2006-09-28 03:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you haven't found your true love yet
2006-09-28 03:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just want to f u c k... period
2006-09-28 03:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋