My boyfiend of 4 years just told me that he had sex with at lease 8 girls while dating me. What should i do or even say??? I haven't talk to him for over a week.
2006-09-28 03:34:47 · 27 answers · asked by Cares 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slept with 8 girls while dating you? sounds like you already broke it off... your heart answered the question before you asked it... youre just having trouble accepting the answer. Love is hard to forget and when it is with someone who has hurt you it can even be harder because that pain festers.
I suggest cutting ties. If you havent spoken with him for a week just keep that up. Move on with your life. You deserve more respect and courtesy than he has shown you. If you go back to him he will take that as you giving your permission for him to continue.... and get yourself tested for all STD's too many things going 'round these days.
2006-09-28 03:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the most logical thing would be to dump him. but it's oh so hard! you've been with him for 4 years and you really love him. you thought he was the one. but the truth remain: once a cheater, always a cheater. you have to move on. no one deserves a cheater and that goes for both sexes. cheating with 1 girl is enough, but 8! and he said "at least"! Move on. find someone better. you can do better! he obviously doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-28 03:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good girl! Just keep that up. There should be no reason to speak to him anymore. He obviously does not respect or value you or your relationship enough to stay faithful to you. Give him a long time to grow up, if you even want to stay with him. But it looks like to me that you are strong enough to get out of a situation where someone is doing you wrong. Don't stick around to see what kinds of diseases he may give you from all of those other girls. Good luck. STay away from him!
2006-09-28 03:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible. He should have told you after the first girl he cheated with. He clearly has little respect for you. You really need to sit back and think about what you really want. And don't for a second think that you can "fix it" or "change him" or anything. I'd like to say 'If he's done it once, he'll do it again'... But you already know that.
2006-09-28 03:39:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he could have sex with 8 girls other than you in 4 years, guess what, he will have sex with others for the rest of his life, I wouldn't take it personally, he is someone with no respect and will always be this way, if you want to keep getting hurt stick with him, if you want to be happy send him on his way, whats the saying " theres more fish in the sea"
2006-09-28 03:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you deserve better than that. you were faithful to him for 4 years and i don't think it's too much to ask that he does the same! i know it's probably hard for you to walk away from the relationship, but he's probably not going to change and will only take you for granted and continue his activities if you forgive him and stay with him.
2006-09-28 03:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by asian chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Poor......girl. I feel sad 4u. He should not do dis 2u. At d early stage u should dumped him away. He is not loyalty, respect 2u but d good thing is he honest 2u by tellin' he had sex with dos 8girls or else u still in a dark room dunno wat goin' on. If u dun 1it 2carry on do dis 2u. U should not carry on with him anymore n dumped him away. It's such a wasted relationship tat end in 4years. Ur love 2him were thrown into d ocean. He is not worthy 2u. What an unfaithful beau. If u still with him ur smile will no longer exist. 4ur happiness please leave him.
2006-09-28 03:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW! This guy is crazy but at least he's honest. The first step you should take is talking to him. If you really love him and he really seems apologetic give him another shot with a mutual agreement of not going outside the relationship for sexually gratification. But really you should follow your heart.
Good Luck
2006-09-28 03:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by luscious17_2008 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He doesnt respect your or the relationship dump him and find a quality guy that wont cheat on you like that. You dont respect yourself if you stay with his no good behind.
2006-09-28 03:37:58 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is STILL your boyfriend? That would be a problem! 8 girls - wow and ouch! Move on!
2006-09-28 03:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋