How to know if he's a player?

Question

How do can you tell if a guy is a player or if he is using you?

what signs does he show?

Answer 1

Invite your prettiest Girlfriend around and tell him she's just broken up with her boyfriend.

Then stand back and watch. It's like moths to a flame.

Answer 2

Here's the answer:

You have to pay attention to what they do, NOT WHAT THEY SAY. You do not listen to what a man says and believe it as the truth. You need to watch their actions: how do they treat you in public and in private, is he taking a lot of calls, is he making your dates, does he only see you when he can see you and not when you want to. If this is a new relationship it may be hard to spot these things, but here's a good way to get around it: Do not have sex with him when you first get with him. And if you do, don't think of him as your man until that has been established.

The thing is that no woman should be worried about some guy being a player. Don't jump into a relationship with all of your feelings ready to give them all to him. Just wait until you see what kind of guy he is. Believe me, who he is will come out.

Answer 3

HERE'S THE TRUTH AND YES I WAS STUPID, BUT THATS THE WAY LOVE GOES.

THERE IS THIS GUY I HAVE BEEN DATING FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW AND I KNOW HE SEE'S OTHER WOMEN.

WHEN WE FIRST STARTED DATING HE MADE ME FEEL LIKE THE MOST IMPORTANT GIRL IN THE WORLD. HE ALWAYS ANSWERED HIS PHONE AND WHEN EVER I WANTED TO SEE HIM WE WOULD GET TOGETHER. BUT AS TIME WENT ON HE STOPPED ANSWERING HIS PHONE AS MUCH AND WE WENT TO SEEING EACH OTHER ABOUT ONCE A WEEK.

OH BUT WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER THE THINGS THAT HE SAYS AND THE WAY HE TOUCHES AND KISSES ME IS JUST GREAT.......AND MIGHT I ADD THE SEX IS MIND BLOWING, THE BEST I'VE EVER HAD; SO WHEN WE ARE TOGETHER IT'S LIKE HE MAKES UP FOR WHEN WE ARE APART. HE WOULD ALWAYS SAY I WAS THE ONLY ONE HE WAS SEEING, AND THAT HE JUST BE SO BUSY WITH WORK(BY THE WAY HE IS ALWAYS OUT OF TOWN ON "BUSINESS", YEAH WHATEVER.), AND THAT HE'S SO SORRY. SO AS YOU ALREADY KNOW I WOULD ACCEPT HIS APOLOGY AND MOVE ON.

AS TIME GOES ON HE HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE HE DOESN'T ANSWER HIS PHONE MORE THAN HE ANSWERS IT! HIS PHONE IS ALWAYS TURNED OFF AFTER 11PM WHETHER HE'S WITH ME OR NOT, HE ALWAYS HAS CONDOMS AND WE DONT EVEN USE THEM; AND LAST WEEK I WAS AT HIS HOUSE AND HE HAD A NEW MINT FLAVORED CONDOM:)

ANYWAY SO IN JULY I FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT AND THINGS HAD ACTUALLY GOTTEN BETTER, WE HAD STARTED SEEING EACH OTHER ALOT MORE, HE ALWAYS ANSWERED MY CALLS, HE ALWAYS MADE ME FEEL LIKE I WAS SO IMPORTANT, AND THE MINUTE I LOST THE BABY.....THINGS WENT RIGHT BACK TO NORMAL. AND THREE WEEKS AFTER THAT...................HE GOT BUSTED!!!!!!

HE GOT TRULY BUSTED WHEN ANOTHER WOMAN POPPED UP AT HIS DOOR EARLY ONE SATURDAY MORNING. EVERY SINCE THEN I HAVE LET HIM KNOW THAT WE ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE, BUT BECAUSE THE SEX IS GOOD WE CAN CONTINUE TO SEE EACH OTHER, AS WELL AS OTHERS. HE HATES THAT, BUT I LOVE IT! NOW HE'S CHASING ME AND IM SEEING OTHER MEN. IT FEELS GREAT, HALF OF THE TIME WHEN HE CALLS ME I DONT ANSWER. SOMETIMES I STAND HIM UP AND NEXT SUNDAY IS MY HOUSE WARMING PARTY AND I AM INVITING ALL OF MY "FRIENDS" OVER, BECAUSE I AM A SINGLE WOMAN.

ALL IN ALL, I LOVE MY EX TO DEATH BUT I CANT LET HIM WALK OVER ME ANY LONGER. I WILL NEVER BE A FOOL FOR A MAN EVER AGAIN. FROM NOW ON ITS ALL ABOUT ME. IM YOUNG(22), SUCCESSFUL, AND I DON'T HAVE KIDS IT'S TIME FOR ME TO LIVE AND HAVE FUN.

SO YOU WANNA KNOW IF HE'S A PLAYER? ASK YOUR SELF THESE QUESTIONS...


1. how often do we see each other?
- if a person really loves you they will always wanna be with you
2. does he turn his phone off at night?
- if so why?
3. does he always choose or plan when the two of you hook up?
- he has to make sure that he has not scheduled a night with someone else
4. have you met his family?
-if you've been serious with a man for six months and still havn't met his family, then really just how serious is your relationship
5. does he always know just what to say or do to make you forget or get over everything and anything you were mad about?
- that's called "GAME", and that's what he's runnin'



I HOPE THIS HELP'S YOU.

Answer 4

If he has all the confidence you are attracted to in a man, knows how to make your head spin, and knows exactly how to touch you, he may be a player.

Women don't realize that confidence they're attracted to comes from experience and proven ability.

Libido

(A player)

Answer 5

He's always out, hides his phone from you,comes back with his boxer shorts on back to front and smells of another womans perfume.

He is secretive, you find reciepts for restaurants that you have never been to or for womens clothes you've never seen before.

Answer 6

If you suspect he is then he probably is. Either that or you have trust issues you need to work on before you get into a relationship maybe. Only time will tell. Don't give yourself all to him.

Answer 7

well if he's real Player u would never know but occasionally u run into some fakes and they always hav some gur'ls number on them...stupids.

Answer 8

is he breathing? haha. seriously, when you are talking to him, is he listening to you? ask his opinion of something you've said while telling him something about yourself. most players don't give a damn about you or anything you say, it's a good, easy test to determine player status. most importantly, however, trust your gut. it's 99% correct. and if you have sex with him, make him use a condom.

Answer 9

You don't know until you get played bc most players are really good.

Answer 10

when you get the answer to this... let me know!

sometimes they are so good, you think they're the real thing only to realise that that's his angle! sometimes you just have to let it flow and the truth comes out, problem is by the time you find out, you might be in too deep!