I was seeing this guy and he felt we were getting too close which i agreed because we both are not ready for a relationship, but he says he really likes me just needed some space. that was cool with me not a problem at all. So about a week 1/2 he calls me and says he was thinking about me and wantd to see how i was doing . that was a week ago. I want to call him just to see how he is but don;t want him to think i''m trying push him into seeing me until he is ready. In a way he hurt me because he was kinda giving me mixed signals. so i don't want to do the same. But i miss hanging out and chillin with him we always had a good time together. But I think he liked me more than he was telling me and he for some reason is scard of what he was feeling. I like him too he is a really sweet person and we get along so well. What should i do? If you need more info let me know
2006-09-28 03:21:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Treat em mean keep em keen. If he thinks your not bothered then he will want you more. I say don't call, wait for him. If he doesn't get back to you, then he obvoiusly isn't that bothered. You can always send a casual text over the weekend. But make sure it says that your out doing something really fun and exciting (even if your not) cos then he won't think your sitting by the phone. It's all about the chase...don't hate the players, hate the game!
2006-09-28 03:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you in many situations could call him, you have your answer, and the respond isn't any. whilst a guy extremely likes a woman, he would not could be chased, whether he's shy. If he would not call you in any respect this weekend, he's in all probability only relieved which you have have been given stopped bugging him. If he does call you and asks why you have not referred to as him, you would be attentive to that he's a minimum of slightly fascinated. the two way, you would be attentive to lots greater approximately his thoughts for you with the help of Monday than you be attentive to excellent now.
2016-10-01 11:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and say whats up. You haven't been callin or anything so it's not pushing. If you guys are cool, you should be able to call just to talk. Don't bring up anything about relationship or anything, just chit chat, maybe ask to hang out, but thats it. You do what you feel is right, but I believe its ok to call ever once in a while since you are friends.
2006-09-28 03:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I normally would say No but . was watching Tyra the other day and she had some people on there and talking about dating and being a virgin as an adult. and the guys said they'd definatly want the girl to call too . but don't like call so much you stock him or annoy him as that happed to me and this guy stoped talking to me and hanging out.
good luck
just follow your what your heart/head say and go with it
2006-09-28 03:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he sounds keen. Call him and ask him out for a drink or something. Then you leave it to him to contact you again.
He contacted you last week, you do it this week. Once he sees you, give him time to figure out whether he want's regular dates with you. If so, then he'll call you. But let HIM decide
2006-09-28 03:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by axel_jose187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should because he called u first know it be nice that u did because u feel that but he probably think u don't care enough because u don't call u know and talk about it u probably think the same but scared to say for the reason u both agreed.
2006-09-28 03:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to see you bad enough, he would ask to see you, he still isn't ready! Don't call him, let him think about what he wants1
2006-09-28 03:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and find out how he is doing too. Don't give up on what you want. He wants you to call him too, he is just pretending. So go for it girl.
2006-09-28 03:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by jejenight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for his call. If he really want to continue . he will call you. Now, you can go shopping or doing new hair style or anyhing that make you look amazing. when you meet him next time. May be now he is also do something to make himself look handsome when he meet you.cheer!
2006-09-28 03:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by boathouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him call you..You don't want to seem to pushy or desperate to talk to him or hang out... Good luck with this and if it doesn't work out for you there are plenty more fish out there!!!!!
2006-09-28 03:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋