Can anyone help me wat is the best way to get someone one back, or to help him realize that wat the two of you have is something special and not worth throwing away without persuing it further.
2006-09-28 03:18:03 · 12 answers · asked by tears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to let him be, don't contact him, don't call him, don't cry in front of him, don't show any pain at all. Ask his friends how he is doing and just wish him well, but don't ask about him all the time, don't show that you are desperately waiting for him, and he really loves you or had those strong feelings for you, he will come back. But if he doesn't, you can't force it, you can't force yourself on him because in the end you will feel used and he will still leave, just give yourself some time to think about what went wrong and if you two get back together in the future you will be able to make it better, but if you don't, at least its a lesson learned! Good luck and hang in there, its tough, I have been there. But mine came back and we are about to get married!
2006-09-28 03:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him change his mind. Peraps what you and he had was special at times, but... it's only good and worth persuing if you BOTH feel the same way. Maybe your just fantasizing about what could have been "if only." Let yourself go through the grief of losing him, learn your lessons, don't be hard on yourself-- in fact, treat yourself like your own best friend who is going through a breakup, find some new interests to distract you some, and you will feel better and see things differently in a couple months. Hang in there.
2006-09-28 03:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out for yourself and understand the reasons which bring about all the fighting, arguments, and even break-ups. You have the power to turn the relationship around to your favor and create that long-lasting and harmonious relationship which you so desire. Whatever difficulties or obstables you are facing in your relationship right now, know that if you change your attitude, your outer environment will change as well. Be the solution, and start watching miracles happen.
If you take your relationship seriously, are sure you want to love this woman all your life, and even keep her by your side, you have to decide to be the right man to her. By this, I do not mean to say you have to change drastically into something else and not being yourself anymore. Trust me, if you are not being yourself, no women would ever want to be with you. Women love honest, trustworthy, and committed men.
2006-09-28 03:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's usually a good idea to move on rather than keep trying to recapture the past. Even if you do get him back, it won't be the same.
2006-09-28 03:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..look good hang out with him anyway just as a friend...and make it look like you have no intentions of going any further...any guy I did that to came back.
2006-09-28 03:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really make someone see that. they have to feel it. If they dont feel it and need you tomake them see it then its not worth it to you either. You deserve someone who cant be without you! Let it be right, not forced.
2006-09-28 03:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt want to be back then you cant make him. move on if i were you. dont waste your time with someone who dont want to be with you.
2006-09-28 03:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOO LITTLE TO LATE. Once its over its over.
2006-09-28 03:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him u're making apple pie
2006-09-28 03:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋