I have seen many questions about why people like spanking - and just to be clear i am talking about spanking between consenting adults and i wanted to know how people first approached the issue with their partners, was it embarassing to bring up, how did the conversation go etc
Thanks
J
2006-09-28 03:17:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend just did it and I love it, it makes sex more intimate and kinky.
2006-09-28 03:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
These days, like arosehasthrtorns, I mostly meet my spanking partners through spanking sites, so we both know we're into it right from the start. But way back in the prehistoric days before the internet, it used to be a question of feeling out the ground in advance, dropping little hints to see how the other person reacted. Nearly always you could sense if someone was into it - and if you guessed wrong, you could usually pass it off as a joke.
But nowadays it's so much easier....
2006-09-28 13:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. For me it was during sex. You can say almost anything when both of you are really getting into it. You shouldn't spank without her consent though. Some women find it offensive. But, if you think you know her pretty well to know what she likes, give it a try.
I know I just wanted to see what it was all about. I just kind of looked at him and said "do you want to spank me?" and he was like "hell yea" and he gav eme a light spanking. it turned me on, so now he knows to do it when he really wants to get me going.
2006-09-28 10:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by kisme86 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's never easy to broch the subject of personal kinks with the special person in your life....unless....you do what I did and meet someone on an adult website...you can be honest up front about what you like and know if the person answers your ad they are into it too..or at least not put off by it! Met my LTR this way,,
2006-09-28 10:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by arosehasthornns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the heat of the moment it happened and we both liked it. We added a riding crop and really enjoy the variety
2006-09-28 10:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Peter G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was dating a girl up to a couple of weeks ago who was really into it and much more. She used to like me to choke her. Also she loved me pulling her hair and I mean really pulling.
Hot wax is another one she was into. With spanking she would command me to hit her. I'm a boy who likes to do as he's told lol.
2006-09-28 11:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sky 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
why do people like it its just so not a turn on i think its weird and it hurts ouch the pain think of the pain people for all those people who like it
2006-09-28 11:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just grabbed her one night and put her over my knee and spanked her,she loved it. now its part of the proceedings
2006-09-28 10:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it wasn't brought up in conversation... it happened in the middle of sex. I liked it, he liked it...
2006-09-28 10:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which big-mouth told you I was?
2006-09-28 10:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋