I am 25 married to a wonderful guy. But I need to put some spark back in it. We have a 16 month old son so I cant just like take him at any time of the day but what can I do throughout the evening that way by the time I put my son to sleep he just wants to rip my clothes off? (I'm overweight and quite paranoid about it so I wont walk around naked or anything so please dont suggest that)
2006-09-28 03:13:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirt,flirt,flirt..... Just because you married doesn't mean this should stop! Making love doesn't start in the bedroom it starts way before that! Slip little notes in his pocket.so he finds them when he goes to work or send him flirty little e-mails or text messages! I promise this works, I know from experience! Also when you feel sexy you are sexy!
2006-09-28 03:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the reverse of the same situation, By the time I work all day, come home, try to help make dinner or make dinner depending on who got home first. We put the kid to bed, and sometimes I just feel like going to sleep. I want be ready to rumble but sometimes I just can't.
I think the best thing you can do is to be flirty with your husband, try not to be paranoid about how you look, or physical features, I say this because he did marry you. Get him in the mood, be flirty, let him know what your thinking. Don't be afraid to whisper in his ear, tell him your Glad hes home, or whilst in bed tell him you have been waiting for this moment all night
2006-09-28 03:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by bilge77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you are overweight do you feel good about your body? I was going to tell you to give him a nice strip dance or take a pole dancing class. It can be kind of hard with a toddler but you can also find a babysitter and take a trip, get a hotel room to get away from all the hustle and bustle.
The important thing is being comfortable with your body. He's your hubby so he should love you the way you are!
2006-09-28 03:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always loose weight if you want to gain more spark, you need to put forth the effort to get something good from it.
Make a list of 10 things you can do.
2006-09-28 03:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, even tubbies can be sexy. The trick is to act as if you were totally comfortable in your own skin. If I had a wife who became self conscious about her weight and could act sexy and comfortable for me, I would leave her. TAKE A CHANCE....Get out of your clothes and into some heals and strut.
2006-09-28 03:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ready to rumble in the bedroom?! Put on some boxing gloves and punch him.
That'll get him ready to rumble.
2006-09-28 03:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be seductive. You will know what he likes. Does he like being dominated? Dirty talk? Touching? You could simply caress his nether regions during TV time and then stop... that really gets them going. Just play hard to get, but be naughty. Do not be overly worried about your weight. Men do not see that, they just see naked! :)
It is really what you know your guy likes & run with that.
2006-09-28 03:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up to your room and be naked in bed.... He wont rip your clothes off ..but the surprise...
or hand him a book with a invite for sex in it...he will rsvp to you.
2006-09-28 03:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by MayberryNR5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rent a porn and get a toy. put the porn in and insert the toy when hes in the shower er something... then when he comes into the bedroom let him watch you for a while... that would work for me;)
2006-09-28 03:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by JUSTIN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple....a naked woman! No lead in, just nakedness
2006-09-28 03:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by bmaldon04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋