I am dating an older guy and i am completely in love with him. But he sems offish sometims, when we met we were making love all the while, at every oppourtunity, but now it seems to get less. I know he's not seein anyone lse but i was wonderin how to make him more interested? i already bought him some sxy lingrie for his birthday and that worked for a bit
2006-09-28 03:12:23 · 18 answers · asked by Rachie J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on your attitude to life as well as how you dress. If he thinks you are acting immature compared to him he will not find you as attractive as he did at the start, becuase it was all new.
Also, there might be something sexually he wants you to do and you don't want to, that would make him feel like he does not have love and respect from you (especially if he does all you ask during sexual congress).
Or it could be the newness of the relationship has gone and he is an excitment junky. My g/f is the same.
Maybe there's something really kinky he's afraid of asking you to do, so he tries to avoid vanilla sex because he needs something different.
The question is too open really.
Ask what his favourite thing is, eg. handjob, oral etc and learn how to do that really well. That will get his atttion, if you pay attetion to what he likes.
2006-09-28 03:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kaereon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, till you intend to marry this guy, per chance you want to consider that he's not any longer the guy for you. If he's bored now, are you able to imagine being married to him?? In all honesty, there are merely such an incredible style of recommendations that 2 bodies will be prepare, and a lengthy married existence over many years receives boring sometimes. He looks to have a a lot larger sex force than you do, so is this the existence you want for the subsequent 40 years? merely because you're at the same time now would not recommend that is solid in stone - he's not any longer your fiance or your husband, authentic? he's only a boyfriend. per chance you want to locate yet another guy who's desires for sex are in course of yours. watching porn will no longer replace WHO you're, any better than him watching that is going to replace who he's. you're merely different human beings, hon. best of success !
2016-12-06 07:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by putz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like stimulation of the eyes as well as their privates. If you can afford it, you can take a pole dancing class or teach yourself how to strip dance. Also try different positions in bed, doing it in different places. It also wouldn't hurt to hold off on sex for a few days. When you do it all the time it will lose it's excitement and become routine.
2006-09-28 03:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem. he's older and at first it was every day and now it has come to like once a week. i kinda need more and in the beginning it was exciting and interesting. now its already come to the same positions and the only i can think to make it more interesting to add new places. if you find the answer let me know.
2006-09-28 03:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lap dance.
A sexy massage, (in a sexy outfit)
Crazy quickies
Make a lot of noise
Tie him to a chair facing the headboard of the bed now get on all fours facing away from him and pleasure your self in front of him, but dont let him join in, this will drive him crazy, then after you feel you have teased him long enough, screw him.
2006-09-28 03:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by budda m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i already bought him some sxy lingrie for his birthday you say,well i hope it fitted him.
2006-09-28 03:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by mr_sister_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things you could try
talk to him - find out what is going on in his head
invite a friend to join?
buy some butter (last tango in paris)
obviously these last two are flippant.
talk to the guy...
2006-09-28 03:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make love with the mind, so find out what is bothering him
2006-09-28 03:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is working way to hard and needs a rest.
2006-09-28 05:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the invite a friend option!!!
2006-09-28 03:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by ftw35m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋