see my boy friend cheated on me when i was 6 monthes pregnet...!!!!! see i whent to the hospitil because i was haveing problems and he whent with me to the fist doctor and the he left and i went back to the doctor that night and while i was in the hospitil he was out getting drunk and cheaten on me and i took him back is there really a such thing of if the person you love most could hurt so bad?????!!!!!
2006-09-28 03:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He can love you but still cheat on you. Sex is a physical act and he doesn't have to be emotionally involved with someone to have sex with them. Leave him!
2006-09-28 03:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep most times women grow up before men, some men don't care and can not settle down, My father in law is 55 he has 5 kids all different moms, been married twice and has had more girlfriends than anyone I know, He has been with alot of wonderful women , but for him it is not enough, he is now living with a women that is absolutely awesome but a month ago she caught him with another women, its an on going cycle for him, On the other hand some guys do that crap when there young because the scared of commitment but they will come out of it when you get rid of him and he realizes that he loves you , this may take a while. And maybe hes not the one for you but I can honestly say that if hes not the one for you , there is someone out there waiting!
2006-09-28 03:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pompin Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love does not hurt. If your partner cheated on you he does not truly love you. The best thing you can do is to leave him alone because if he did it once he will do it again. When you took him back it was like telling him it is ok to cheat on me. You deserve better. I'm talking from experience. When you lay down with dogs you get fleas or in this case an STD.
2006-09-28 03:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by shortandsexxy040182 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunatly yes, and if hes doing it when ur in the hospital worrying for ur baby then to be quite honest, he probably never loved you the way you love him. men are strange things, they could everything perfect in their lives but if someone offers it on a plate then they are gunna take it! and i dont believe in being with sum1 for the sake of a child, because that will affect the child in the long run... can i just ask if this is ur first love? coz if it is (i know this wont help at the mo, but its so true) whatever you feel for this guy will be doubled if not more when u meet ur next. i thought i would never love the same after my first love, but then my last partner came along and i thought what i felt for the other guy was nothing compared to this.... we got engaged and moved in and things went from bad to worse, he eventually after 4yrs cheated on me, no matter what he said to apologise i just couldnt take him back or even look at him the same... but im a strong believer that if you truely love someone, no matter how tough things go, cheating is not the answer, i would rather finish with who i was with if i got the feeling i was gunna go with sum1 else. your better off without him in my opinion, men like him are not worth it. heres a saying that i like to live by: MEN THAT ARE WORTH YOUR TEARS WILL NEVER MAKE YOU CRY!!!
and good luck for you and your baby in the future x x x
2006-09-28 03:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The saying goes once a cheater always a cheater and that holds true. You have two simple choices...
#1 Learn to live with it
#2 Move on
2006-09-28 03:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Evolrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its a hard question and my hubby cheated on me while i was prego too .
and yes i know its so painful enough so to knock us on our knees
i never understood why he did it ? at home he shows love never yells and is close to perfect as a husband .
and we have hot sex and listen to this !!
the night he cheated on me we had just got done having sex and he left for a little and well yea ..so
to ask why ..because they are egotistical and it takes alot of strength for a real man to not do it if a lady is whore lady is givin it .
so these men are well lets not say wuss's they arent man enough and sure of their selfs enough not to do it !!
i think he felt pretty bad he cried and cried but that means **** the deed was done !! and my sisters husband has done it many times ..so you know everyone is gonna say once they cheat the chances of them doing it again are very high ..and more so since we stayed with them and they didnot sufferr any consequences ..i left my man when i found out for months and he was like a puppy behind me whining all the time and if that was enough suffering for him not to do it again ? who knows?
so i just try to live happy like i said he is wonderful to me in all other ways .i pray all the time that he doesnt do it again ..and i am more eye open to watchin him and his locations..
but dont ask them they are not going to say " yea dear i cheated on you again " hahah .and if you ask him all the time your not spendin your time to happy are you ? and if hes not cheating again and your talkin about it all the time then that causes stress in the relationship-- i am not saying forget ..but y0u forgave him WE stayed with these men after they did it so now why run our mouths about it ..we well if it affects you too bad then leave him ..or try to be happy at least!!! cuz a happy woman makes a better mom !! so if you cant be happy then you might have to leave him !! or remember your the one that took him back after and well leave it behind !! well good luck and love makes us all do things we would never imagine doing ..if this was a friend somewhere we would be telling them ditch his *** already haha but because i feel what you feel and reality is reality ....well good luck to both of us hun ..padierma@yahoo.com
oh and i wanted to add that i have been with my hubby for over 11 years now ..and mostly happy ( who knows if he has cheated again or not ) but unless it smacks me in the face i am gonna be happy and focus on my kids!!!
2006-09-28 03:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I don't think he cares that much about you. The reason being that If somebody you care so much about is going through pain having problem with her pregnancy, i don't think you will be able to go drinking and cheating.
You will atleast be around so that when the person needs you, you can be there.
Have a word with him and know where you stand with him.
2006-09-28 03:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were indeed TRUE love. all that would not have happened. and true love is hard to find, and it seems it only happens once in a lifetime. Mine died 5 years ago, and I have never felt the same since. Find someone else, you'll know when it happens.
2006-09-28 03:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by brenda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your the one in love , and i do believe your the one that wont cheat on him, the question is dose he love you?
is he in love with you?and will he cheat on you again?i cant answer that for you , you down deep no in you heart if he will cheat on you. thy say if thy cheat on you one time thy do it again,i hope that saying not true, but some people believe that it is. i no when you think that person in love how could thy hurt you in away that would hurt so bad, you are his best friend would he hurt his best friend this way?
2006-09-28 03:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by thekid2064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cant cheat if they are really in love....Cheating is a sign of disrespect and lies.....a person that loves someone dosent disrepect them or lie to them espeacially during these times that u are pregnant....he should be catering to you!
2006-09-28 03:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋