My gf loves being cuddles. She said I didn't cuddle with her so she said I don't love her. How do I explain that I love my girl to her?
2006-09-28 03:08:50 · 14 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just cuddle with her. I'm sure you will love cuddling with her once you try it.
2006-09-28 11:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know other than telling her that you love her. Besides she needs to learn that cuddling does not mean a guy loves you. But if that's all she want from you, just cuddle her to keep her satisfied.
2006-09-28 10:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I soppose that she feels the most loved by you in your arms. Us girls can get so addicted and spoiled by this. For some reason I know not, a girl can feel so like weird if a guy doesn't want to, like feel rejected and disliked. I know, it sounds weird and we all need some body space to ourselves. This is how you get it. Instead of her coming to you for it, becuase she'll want more of what she is not getting come to her and be the one to smother her with cuddles, believe me she will want a break at some point and than you'll get one too. One never can know when they have had their full dosage of cuddles. So you be the pushy cuddly one and than she'll back off a little.
2006-09-28 10:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh... cuddle with her. Find a position you enjoy. If she is asking you to cuddle with her while sleeping and you can't sleep in this position just tell her that you'll cuddle with her for a while then turn over so you can get some rest. I hate it when my hubby tries to cuddle with me while sleeping but I get thrilled when he calls me over to cuddle while watching a movie. If you meet her in the middle with this and show her that your trying she'll calm down a little.
2006-09-28 10:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle her!!cuddling is important in loving relationships!since she told u, it means that she really expects u to cuddle her!what r u waiting for?start now!
2006-09-28 10:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are things called love languages and everyone has one primamary love language. Obviously your girlfriends primary love language is touch. So touch her...that is how she feels loved. But your girlfriend needs to understand also that just because you don't cuddle with her doesn't mean you love her any less. But do try to touch, try for 2 weeks to cuddlewhen she wants too. It will then start to make her feel loved and her mood should improve.
Good luck
2006-09-28 10:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that u dont cuddle with her doesnt mean that you dont love her your gf needs to get real... why dont you just sit down with her and talk about the way you feel
2006-09-28 10:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by dusty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuddle with her! What's the problem? I don't think I know anyone who doesn't enjoy that simple intimate physical contact. It's not like she's asking you to do the impossible.... What are waiting for?
2006-09-28 10:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle her dammit
what kind of a man are you?
2006-09-28 10:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyapev2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle her..but if you are not comforatable with this then explain to her why and work our another way to show affection. We can't guess what ye are thinking....believe me i wish we could :)
2006-09-28 10:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by suspicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋