My boyfriend of almost 3 years just broke up with me last night he said he dont want me anymore....but sometimes he says that when were fighting or mad!...But last night was different i kept calling him and calling him and he probably answered like 3 times out of maybe 30 calls OR MORE! and he would tell me to leave him alone i also text him to tell him how much i loved him! all last night and even this morning i called him and text him..he answered and said that he would call me later that he was running late to school and maybe after 20 mins i called him again and he answered and told me he was at school and he was like no i dont want to be with u anymore! ....Im SO DEPRESSED RIGHT NOW I DONT KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO!!! IVe tried and tried and i know u must be thinking This girl are u crazy! YEA I AM CRAZY IN LOVE! ......PLEASE HELP SHOULD I KEEP TRYING OR JUST LET HIM GO FOR GOOD!
2006-09-28 03:05:17 · 15 answers · asked by dalia f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get another one doooohhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 03:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, You scared him. Don't run after nobody like that no matter how long you were together. Thats frightening. Give him space and time. Calling ever few mins will do nuthing but irritate the hell out of him. he best way to get over him is "GET OVER HIm and find somebody new. When u stop calling and textin...he may see you have let up and and decide to call u.......it takes time
2006-09-28 03:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you keep calling he'll get more annoyed. I know it's hard but try to give him some space. Go spend time with family or friends to help take your mind off him. If he's just being stupid give him time and he'll come around. If not then there was no sense delaying it. Be happy it happened now and not next year. Take time for you then move on. If your not the one now then you won't be tomorrow.
2006-09-28 03:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, lay off all the phone calls and text messages. That does make you look crazy. He'll refer to you as his crazy ex-girlfriend to all of his friends now. Looks like you two like to play games. Why don't you just see what it's like to be apart for a while? Stop obsessing over this guy.
2006-09-28 03:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by stuckinamoment 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but your making an *** of yourself. Don't you have any self confidence? If you leave him alone to let him cool off I'm sure you will get a better response out of him. If he doesn't call then just let him go. You remind me of one of them crazy ladies that just pester the crap out of men. Let him be. Pick yourself up from your boot straps and move on. Get over it and take control of yourself!
2006-09-28 03:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive been there. leave him alone. he wants it to be over, you should respect that. maybe he said that he would call you later as to not hurt your feelings. like i said before i have been there and i would call and call and he would be like like are you stupid stop calling me. finally i did. i know it hurts but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. i did everything you did and after i really thought about it i felt really, really stupid! dont reduce yourself to that. you are so much better off w/o him.
2006-09-28 03:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to keep busy. surround yourself with people who love you. It is going to be hard but try to get out and enjoy yourself. If he is the one for you it will work itself out. Be patient. Do not push him. Remember you don't miss your water until your well runs dry.
2006-09-28 03:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by shortandsexxy040182 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u do want him back just give him al little space right now because i gurantee calling like that is just pushing him further away....give him a litte time.....yea i'ts gone hurt like hell like the world is coming to an end, feels like your heart is being ripped out of your chest believe me it will get better just give him a little time.................. stop calling so much before he doesn't answer at all.....he knows how u feel...........or was it somethin u did.....time heals all wounds
2006-09-28 03:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should come here. I'll take your mind off of that little nitwit. *Licks lips* The best way to get over a guy is to get under a better one.
2006-09-28 03:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let it go! I know it hurts now but, do you want someone who doesn't love you? Back off and give it time(who knows he might miss you or you might not miss him!) A relationship takes two,its not one sided!
2006-09-28 03:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl,get your self together!!!U may be in love,but don't go around and kiss his a**.A woman must be DESIRABLE. Try to ignored him for a couple days and " u will see" what happens.If that doesn't work,then he is not worth it.
2006-09-28 03:19:49 · answer #11 · answered by magpie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋