2006-09-28 02:58:27 · 17 answers · asked by adinajoy16 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Without a doubt YES! My sister was in a relationship with her ex-fiance who had a temper out of this world. He would get upset without notice. He then started being verbal abusive, which then lead to emotional abuse, then mental abuse and lastly physical abuse. I'm glad my sister got out of that relationship, but I wish she would've gotten some kind of warning signs for guys like that.
2006-09-28 03:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by hys7768 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are more types of abuse than physical. There is emotional, psychological and verbal abuse. If you find the things he does and says to you when he's angry hurtful, they are some form of abuse. He needs to go into counseling (and quite possibly anger management), so he can get a handle on his temper. Generally, people who fall into the habit of reacting inappropriately toward others when they are upset, don't get any better without help. Especially if they tend to be around people who are willing to put up with it.
2006-09-28 03:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not good!!! although that has to be extremely hard for you just in general!! If yall have been together for a while and he was never showed any anger towards you or has never laid a hand on you, then pro bally not!!! but there are different kinds of abuse there is also mental abuse!!!! You can only determine if your boyfriends behavior is affecting you!!!! But there are to many guys out there to stay in an abusive relationship so weigh ti out and if you see that his behavior is affecting you in a bad way!!! get out!!!!
2006-09-28 03:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by NICKIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely. If he directs his anger towards you or someone not responsible for the "little things", this is a clear sign of abuse. At this point it is only verbal, but that can easily lead to physical abuse. Not to mention that verbal abuse can cause you psychological damage that you are not even aware of.
Please be cautious in this relationship and protect yourself.
2006-09-28 03:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by tweetymay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means that he is immature. If he gets mad at YOU over these little things and won't stop even if you ask him to calm down, he IS abusive (emotional abuse). If he hits you, it is physical abuse.
2006-09-28 03:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lib 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this behavior scares you in any way then it's abuse even if it's just small things. Or if he gets mad at someone else and he yells or cusses 'at' you then it's abuse. This is called emotional abuse.
2006-09-28 03:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by arl21amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he gets mad about. He might have a problem at home closely related to the 'little things'.he'll probably get over it. but if he doesn't probably just dump him instead.
2006-09-28 03:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he didnt learn anger management skills as a child and could possibly become abusive
2006-09-28 03:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that anger is directed at you, yes. Or if you feel unsafe during his melt downs, yes. If he blames you for the little things, yes. If he becomes violent when angry, yes.
2006-09-28 03:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, if he that prone to snapping, it becomes when, not if he will abuse you. Get out now, while you still have the chance.
2006-09-28 03:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋