What was your reaction? What did you do? How did you find out? What was their reasons?
2006-09-28 02:54:02 · 9 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never thought this guy would cheat on me but he did. He was in the Marines and stationed 3.5 hours away. I would go to see him every other weekend. We had known each other for 4 years before finally being together, so I knew him pretty well... so I thought. One day I went to check the mail and I got an envelope without a return address. I opened it and there were pictures of he and I only they were torn and the half of the picture that was of me was in the envelope. Along with a letter saying that "he is MIne" we are together so LEAVE him alone! Turns out the whole time we were together she was going to see him the weekend that I couldn't ( I worked every other weekend). I called to speak with him and he hung up on me. I never got an explanation why or if I had done something. I had never cheated on him and it never crossed my mind. She was his girlfriend before I was and they had broken up and had got back together while we were together. He could have just told me that he wanted to go back to her but chose to take the selfish way out. I ended up taking a weeks vacation and would sit in the bath tub for hours just crying. Has something ever hurt you so much that all you can do is cry and no matter what you just can't stop. Well, that was me. I held on to what I did have of that relationship for months. I just couldn't believe it. I would have trusted him with my life. That was 7 years ago and I still have those wounds. Yes, I've moved on with my life but that was my ultimate heartbreak.
2006-09-28 03:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~wishful~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reaction= at first I was mad
What did I do= I kick her *** out and got a divorce
How did I find out= My daughter told me her and her mother went to the movies with a guy she works with
What was the reasons= He was just a friend
30 days after our divorce she gets remarried
I didnt relize how unhappy I was in my marriage. We were married for 13 years. I know we were happy at the first of our marriage but over time we just drifted apart. I am much happier now. I am getting married in Jan 07. My life is so much better now. I wish she had done that along time ago but if she had I wouldn't have my my love now. Life does go on even though you may not think it does and most of the time it is much better. The 2nd time around is so different. I guess as you get older things are so much better with someone than when you were younger.
2006-09-28 03:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't.. my first reaction was what did I do for him to cheat on me? Then second reaction I wanted to kill him.. It hurts. Hope it will come to an end one day before the world comes to an end...
2006-09-28 02:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It made me miserable and pathetic. I cried so much I thought i'd had a heart attack. I was on a holiday and he called me to tell me he made love to another girl and that he wanted to try it out. I felt so betrayed I don't even remember what I told him. Anyway, now I'm with someone else and the 'cheater' is back, begging me to give him another chance. If he did it once he'll do it again!
2006-09-28 03:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My reaction was complete devistation. I broke up with him but it killed me. I found out after all of our friends found out. The reason - pure selfishnes.. But time heals all wouds. You'll get over it just like I did. My heart goes out to you. Find someone better - you deserve it.
2006-09-28 02:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see there was one guiy who told me he loved me first but I knew he didn't he just said it because he wanted to hear himself talk and he cheated i thought he wouldnt but looking back on that relstionship it was ovious at least i didn't get hurt that bad. . .I love my friends
2006-09-28 02:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex told me he did just to break up with me i was really hurt and confused he didnt cheat on me but to say that you did just to break up with someone like thats going to help is pretty low then he told me he didnt want to cheat on me but he was interested in another girl so he had to break it off with me to go out with another girl he messed up a 7 year relationship to go out with some hoe...pisses me off still. idiot!
2006-09-28 03:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't give a **** what their reasons are **** em. They don't deserve anyone.
2006-09-28 03:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't
2006-09-28 02:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋