I found out that my fiance was over his ex's house last weekend and I accused him of sleeping with her. He denied it, but said he would have to prove to me that just because he's around a female he doesn't have to sleep with them. He hasn't slept with me in over a week (he says he's been real tired) Is he just trying to play games? we sleep in the same bed, but he's been sleeping in pajamas and we don't usually sleep like that, what's up?
2006-09-28 02:52:33 · 10 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said he was going to prove it to you so he is, atleast you know he sticks to his word.
2006-09-28 02:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like your fiance is trying to assert his masculinity...he wants to show that he is in control of the relationship. He is definitely trying to make a point. As for him saying that he's tired that's really unfair cos that's totally playing games...if he was being honest about proving a point he should just say 'listen i'm not sleeping with you because i'm saying i'm not driven by sex.' He'll probably get over his huff in a few days...good luck with that...my guy is stubborn too (and i always give in cos i think it's stupid to waste your life playing games etc - but that can be bad cos then fellas think they can get away with everything!)
2006-09-28 03:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by suspicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's proving his point to you. However he's doing it wrong. He said that just because he's with a girl doesn't mean that he sleeps with her...well he made you that girl. Don't believe him...ask a friend to look after him...or go over and ask his ex...trust me if she wants him back she'll tell youabout the affair so you dump him and she can have him to herself.
2006-09-28 02:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels guilty that you accused him of doing that. Jumping to conclusions is what we do wrong in relationships. Talk to him, maybe apologize, and see what goes on from there. If you don't know what happened and he tells you that he didn't do anything, try believing him. Ifyou have a hard time trusting him, that relationship wont' last very long.
Just my opinion.
2006-09-28 02:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it men answer what u ask them did you sleep with her was the question and no he didn't sleep with her but i gurantee he had sex with her.................see he's sleepin with u even all wrapped up so he won't have sex with u so ask the correct question how long has he been going over there since you just found out only about last weekend........ladies you'll realize when u ask a man a question it never the answer to the question try it
2006-09-28 03:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya never know maybe he is telling the straight up truth but if want he wants to prove that he didn't do anything let him.
2006-09-28 02:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dee I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have the right to question b/c he's acting different so I would confront him about it and if he gets defensive, then let him go. If you can't trust him, don't torture yourself by staying with him and having sex with him.
2006-09-28 02:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-28 02:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to check into the situation........
2006-09-28 02:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch..
2006-09-28 03:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by K Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋